It is difficult to remind, highlight and celebrate anything that evokes a sense of lack in another.
Although motherhood is an institution that will exist forever in its own codes, by nature, it is eroded and corrupted today; "Let it be a memory for me too" through the photos shared on social media and other related platforms. I think it is one of our values that we sacrifice to nostalgia.
Of course, we are not against remembering mothers, bringing them to the forefront for a day, celebrating today as "Mother's Day" in order to raise awareness. The important thing is to fit and reflect this value we give to the mother in every day, every moment of our lives.
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Undoubtedly, the idea of highlighting and celebrating certain values on certain days does not belong to us, but to western civilization.
The most obvious fact that appears in the West today is the rapid disintegration of the family. The mother is the backbone of the family concept. The mother is the glue that keeps the family institution alive.
The vast majority of mothers in the West die alone in a sad and desolate environment where they are left to their own fate, which they call "nursing home".
What is strange is that his feet are positioned as the address of heaven, "don't even say angst to him if he gets old next to you!" Nursing homes are increasing rapidly in our civilization, where we are subjected to the address.
I know many mothers over the age of seventy, struggling to survive alone in their homes.
Don't they have children? There is. "Does the mother live alone at this age? Why don't you take them with you?" I ask. I see it's been overlooked with expressions like: The pandemic process has enabled us to meet these people more, and this bare truth, which has been eroded in our society, to come to light more.
The concept of nuclear family has become one of the important problems for us. Being a family is important, but it is much more important to be able to do this without breaking the bond with the root family.
In our traditional family order, even the idea of the mother-in-law staying together for a while cannot be tolerated anymore. I think this is one of the main reasons why young people are cold and cautious about getting married and starting a family today. Mothers often die in a secluded corner of their home without even seeing their faces, let alone growing old next to their children. A woman cannot attract a woman, she does not want a woman. The son/wife is caught in the middle, faltering, the business drags on. The unshared son is a serious problem.
There are also women who cannot carry motherhood even though it is in their genes, who cannot become a mother, who throw their baby in a garbage container with the treatment of a piece of garbage in a bag and walk away, who look down on their children with contempt and who do not use violence. That's a separate issue.
I kiss the hands of all our mothers, who are precious every day, who deserve the right of motherhood and deserve heaven under their feet. I wish mercy from God to those who passed away.
Capital, which imposes a comfortable life on the subconscious, does not give in to all the bullshit and tyranny of the world, not with a flower that it buys from the market and relieves its conscience; I sincerely congratulate all the children who value their mothers as mothers with the flower treatment on their heads.