Hello Guys!
It been a while and i hope you all are doing great.
Many people would want to know whether they are moving too fast with a girl they just met or not..
On a general note, slow and steady, they say always wins the race , there's no need to rush.
For every new relationship, you are advised not to rush things with the lady in question this is because, you don't want set a standard that's too high and unsustainable in the long run. And also because the easier you go, the better your chances of seeing signs and observing keenly what the person is and what they are not.
When you allow yourself see all these things, you know have to make a decision to leave or continue in the relationship than skewed by speed with which you rushed into the relationship.
There are ways to know if you are moving at the right pace with a lady you just met;
.The way you spend on her
You know money answers all things and makes the world go round. With money, one seems to have a smooth and easier relationship with lots of romance.
However, spending lavishly on a lady is not advisable as you don't want her to think you are trying to buy your way into her heart.
Ladies expect more than money in a relationship, they need you support and attention to build a lasting relationship, pleas learn to give more in your relationship than throwing money here and there.
You also do not want to begin the relationship on an unsustainable note.
. Introducing her to too many people
As humans, we might have that strong urge to let every one we come across to know we are going out with someone and all that but its wrong to just give in to that desire too early. I am not saying you should have a secret relationship though, but it is important to be on a low key or keep it private especially in the early weeks or even months of the relationship..
Introducing her or showing her off to everyone too early may freak her out. Take things slow and really steady.
. Too much pressure
Relationships make you make few concessions here and there. And it is fine because when two people with different backgrounds and will and desires come together, knowing what to concede and what to compromise on will be key to the continued existence of the relationship.
However, some concessions are made easier when the relationship has been on for a while as opposed to when it is only few weeks or months old. When you are demanding such from a partner, it is the depth of the bond in the relationship that will determine whether not you get it. And many times, relationship bonds are strengthened over time.
If the relationship has not reached the level of closeness yet and you ask for a concession, you may freak your partner out as that may be considered asking for too much, moving too fast.
