We, actors in our own movie, like to write a story about ourselves. And for that story you've been working your entire life, for this story to still make sense, you inhibit yourself from making certain decisions which could be completely unforeseen and life changing.
So if you wish to accelerate the manifestation or the attraction of an amazing life within your movie, which is all up to you as it's your own creation, you have to be able to wander in your own state of being, you have to be able to not tie how you feel to what shows up. What is, should no longer dictate how you feel, what appears now should no longer be an indication of who you are.
If you can detach your state of being from your circumstances, then your circumstances will continue to reflect you and before you know it you start to understand that you are not separate from your experience and your circumstances, all they do is reflect you, never the other way around.
Many times we tell ourselves and teach each others to pay attention to what is, "This is real, pay attention to what is real". Don't be too happy, because nothing in your circumstances indicate that you should be. You start to notice that the feeling of happiness is a choice, which can be called up even when the situation is not in our favor.
Ignoring your circumstances does not mean to ignore your sanity or to ignore your integrity
Imagine having and being capable of doing everything you could have ever wanted, how interesting would that really be?
If you would skip 20 years of your life, so you have no knowledge of anything that happened in between, how valuable would that really be? How interesting would that be if you have no context of what you're really looking at? Would that really give you a greater sense of expansion and add to the sensation of having overcome, having empowered and having transformed?
It would just be like a dream. And we already have that on a non-physical level which is why it wouldn't be interesting. That's why this is interesting, limitation, the need to actually write your own story, to actually play the main character of your own movie.