A Healthy relationship is all you need.

Let me begin by expressing the joy that a healthy relationship brings to one's life. I am a living witness to what l wanna share with my readers today. This is simply not because l have a perfect relationship, but seeing the beauty and the need to develop a healthy relationship in which most of your life's happiness will depend on. It is certainly one of the best ways to be happy. If you ever tried finding true happiness which never came your way, maybe you obviously never tried establishing a healthy relationship with others. Among the very few signs that one is indeed in a healthy relationship is what l seek to mention few and to help everyone make a conscious effort in establishing one.

• Absolute trust.
  Trust is one of the very few ingredients for a healthy relationship. Once it is lost, it takes time and hard work t regain. We all in one way or the other broke the trust that people had for us. This nearly tore me apart when l saw the full trust my woman had was buried away. I obviously had to work things out to make her trust me again. No one would want to date someone you never trust. The absence of trust in every relationship is so keen to establish a healthy relationship. You may easily like someone but gaining the person's trust doesn't come easy. You've got to figure for it. Trust him when he surely says he's going for a church, school, or business meeting. Desist from stalking your partner on social media or intriguing their privacy just so to know who they are seeing. Trying to find suspicious texts on their phones will be of no help if you really wanna have a healthy relationship with your partner.

• Good Communication.
  On great feeling and a lesson I've learned in my relationship is feeling so liberal to be able to be yourself. In this regard, you are free to mention anything at all when with your partner. When she really does not want to see you mention some words or certain convo, be gentle and make her understand the need to be liberal with your loved one in a relationship. It worked for me and she feels really good and happy to share anything with me. Such is a sign of a healthy relationship. When you are in a healthy and promising relationship, you will mention anything, nothing should scare you to express yourself to your partner. There should never be a moment of I've got to hide anything. It is love that binds you and this same emotion must make you feel free to make your partner your best friend. That is when you feel good to say anything that you won't say with anyone else.

• Great Support.
  Heres another sign that you really are in a healthy relationship. Whoever does not see this in your relationship to see the need to have it established and you would appreciate the joy that it brings in one's life. It is one great quality that must be seen in your relationship. The act of receiving and giving great support to each other. I have always cherished my girl so much for the support that she gives me in carrying everything good that my hand finds. This presupposes that I certainly have to do the same by simply giving her all the required support she ever needs. In all, we support each other through thick and thin. There are times even when l do not personally believe in my big scary dreams but she always thinks in me and supports me all the way. When the friends and family think she will not succeed l stand by her with a robust belief that she really has the potential to make it. Sometimes it is not because you have to just support but seeing the beauty and the joy that supporting each other brings. Begin to practice this and you will share the experience and the joy someday. It really works.

• Honesty and Transparency.
  Each day lots of people fight with lies. Sometimes most people lie not because they want to keep or hide something but they do so for the fear of losing the other partner once the truth is spilled out. These are experiences that being in a relationship teaches. He will be mad at me should he find out, hence telling lies. Others too will want the other party to find out him/herself and ready for whatever outcome will be, even if it calls for a breakup. So you are either left to inform or keep it to yourself which does not ensure a healthy relationship. Talking about ensuring absolute happiness in one's life requires desisting from telling lies to anybody. This brings the existence of a healthy relation.

• No abuse.
  In addition, making sure you are in a healthy relationship requires getting rid of abuse. One must never abuse the other in any form. Be it emotional, verbal, mental or physical. No matter how or what the situation may be, never use hurtful words on each other. You are advised not to ever hit the other as well. They all come with their own troubles which everyone must try to avoid. For there's one thing I've learned since this journey l have lived with my girl. I cannot say l am so keen on her and still beat them up or say words of insults at the slightest provocation. This is not healthy for love.

And so conclusively, all l want to share with my readers today is knowing and appreciating the beauty of a healthy relationship. It really makes one so much happy and beautiful. All you need is to do is have these done or try having them established in your relationships and the results will obviously do the magic. A new week is here to create amazing content to affect lives on the steem blockchain. @ackza @surfyogi @citimillz @swigle @debralee @demotruk @bleepcoin @prettyjules158 @tj4real @challengedac @chris4210 Happy new week everyone.