Negative Thinking # 06

"There is no empowerment so effective as self-empowerment In this world, optimists have it, not because they are always right, but because it is positive, even if wrong, they are positive, and that's the way - no power The most effective of its power In this world , only optimists who have great power. "David Landes – California

Based on some scientific study concluded that negative thinking gives greater influence compared to the positive impact. One of the negative becpikir influence is weakening the immune system. Also causes negative thinking someone is depressed and lost a lot of energy. The impact is worse than negative thinking is lead to someone no longer able to do something to create accomplishment or happiness.

The story of the amorous pair of young people here explain how negative thoughts lead to romance stories it ran aground. The tragedy began when the youth have to go scrambling into the battlefield. Upon the face of the war, his right leg severed exposed to bombs. He felt he no longer deserves to have the girl fetish of hearts due to defects of the foot. He was forced to ask for the help of his friend in order to tell his girlfriend that he's been eliminated in the battle field. After that incident, he was through the days of despair, because he still loved her very much. Until when he heard that his former lover will soon get married. The young man felt happy mix sad. On the one hand he delighted lovers of his heart's been able to find a replacement, but he is sad because her lover will soon belong to someone else. The young man wants to see his former lover was smiling happily. La accidentally came on weddings and continues to pay attention to the woman secretly. But he was aghast when he saw that her beloved husband candidate. Because the man was a friend of compatriots who cut off both legs due to the war. The young man so sorry why she used to think negative and hurry up decided to resign because his leg was cut off one. Why he didn't meet her lover first and ask in langsung7 but all too late, negative thoughts just left regrets.

The story actually insist that we should think about the best possibilities first, before thinking about the worst possible. Because what happens in front of the later may be much better than what we think. Hopefully we have one thing in common opinion that positive thinking that much more profitable. Therefore budayakan of positive thinking in your life. Positive thinking ability by positive habits anyway. Here's a tip customize yourself so that every moment of positive thinking.

The first tip is to reduce the negative information you might tend to be more frequently hears the news of the tragedy or crime suppression, abuses and others. But the news about harmony, caring, honesty and love often escaped attention. Then begin decrement the current information about things that are negative.

At the same time, the consumption of news that memljangk3tkan optimism. It's good if you are trying to associate only with people who are definitely give positive input towards a way of thinking. Brian Tracy says, "Get around the right people. Associate with positive, goal-oriented people who encourage and inspire you. -Bergaulah with the right people. Cooperate with positive people, oriented to results, those that are uplifting and inspired a lot of things to you. "Thus, gradually becpikir way you will be more positive.

The second tip is to only focus on things that are positive. In this case you are required to further thanks to the grace of God Almighty. Instead of thinking about something missing in life, it would be better if You made a list of grace God the Almighty that made you feel more grateful.

For example if you are upset over the misfortunes that afflict, perhaps in the form of a flat tire, traffic jam, irregularities, loss of job etc. Instead of continuing to dwell on misfortune that, whether or not you should ponder how much grace God Almighty, because the miracle work of billions of cells in your body. The gift that lets you face to breathe, see, hear, etc. At that time, you will be able to feel that the misfortune that you are naturally not how compared grace God the Almighty. So you can think positive again and can get the job done properly.

For example if you are upset over the misfortunes that afflict, perhaps in the form of a flat tire, traffic jam, irregularities, loss of job etc. Instead of continuing to dwell on misfortune that, whether or not you should ponder how much grace God Almighty, because the miracle work of billions of cells in your body. The gift that lets you face to breathe, see, hear, etc. At that time, you will be able to feel that the misfortune that you are naturally not how compared grace God the Almighty. So you can think positive again and can get the job done properly.

We recommend that you practise some of these tips at least within one month. At that time you can assess that very way of thinking to determine if you are able to acquire a positive or negative result. Zig Ziglar said, "it's not the situation, but wheather we react (negative) (positive) or respond to the situation that's important. -Not a question of a situation is not right, the most important is how we mereaksi or respond to those situations. "At the same time You will be able to assess whether the right positive thinking is very easy through life? After that you get to ihi decided to think negative or positive thinking alone. I am very sure you understand which one to choose!