If you watch any cam models in their live chat, or follow any cam models on twitter, you are going to notice us talking about end of the month, first day of the month scenarios. Most cam models alter their regular cam shifts to accommodate this time of the pay period and opportunity to build rank.
Let's just say it's a wild ride! Personally I'm always so focused in trying to end the month strong. I have not been focused on my cam world 100% until just a few months ago. I've always had other jobs while camming. That is all different now. I've got a lot of momentum to build, and I'm doing my best to ask for suggestions and feedback, and trying to find out a variety of activities to offer in my chat room.
My chat rooms provide a lot of variety. Sure the obvious, neurotransmitter and hormonal surcharge when I am teasing or nude, and or engaged in more intimate activities. My chat room also provides a place for social engagement, camaraderie, and a place to talk about life topics and interests that are not accessible in the normie world. Some of us adults, through consent and mutual respect, thrive in an environment such as this. The high alone of being able to share our fetish, our kink, or our fantasy, is a very freeing and exciting opportunity. It transports us out of the day to day grind. I swear it enhances my well being and productivity.
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First of the month is a big deal in the cam world. Now more than ever. The recent mass adoption of women, men, and couples getting into the cam world is AWESOME! Don't get me wrong. It's so bad ass that so many more people are having fun, and finding themselves enjoying the satisfying working at home conditions, and also well, having a lot more orgasms. It's a rush being an exhibitionist. I fall into both the exhibitionist and the voyeur categories. I totally get it's not for everybody. Just know this, it's freaking amazing for those of us who do enjoy it. I say yes or no whenever I want. I have the authority and ability to create my room that is perfect for my well being and emotional longevity.
Anyways, first of the month, at least on my cam site, is a time to focus extra and build quick rank. Models want to build rank, because it helps us get more exposure, and thus more opportunity to convert transactions and earnings. It's not an easy task. It's even more difficult with the larger amounts of cam models in the industry now. I know, competition is good, it keeps everybody on their toes, and doing their best to provide the best experiences and services. I've never been one to undersell my worth. I know my value. So, I'm doing my best to find more activities, get more feedback from my current members, and also in the very near future, am creating content, something I have never done before. Regardless, without exposure to interested members, without promotion lines, without building a bigger team, a lot of the effort can be delivered with no success in transactions. It's a tricky slope.
One of the reasons I created this blog, after months of trying to decide how to represent myself, was to reach out to more people. At first I was intimidated to blog about being a cam model. To be honest, I enjoy it so much, and over the past few years, have learned, no matter what I do, there are going to be those who are interested, and there are those who are not. I'm no longer worried about those who are not interested. My 100% focus is now on the ones who are. Building a great chat room is top priority, and I am no longer going about it tip toeing around. I'm enjoying blogging and creating the conversation here. It's a fantastic outlet that provides a lot of grounding for my sanity.
This blog provides me an opportunity to write and to connect in depth that I can't always get out of my chat room, because I am hosting so many interests and varieties of participations. It's all good. I knew I would find a place to get cozy in. Blogging daily just flows. It's enhancing my mood greatly.
If you are reading this, and looking for an adult outlet, consider following me on twitter, link above in bio. My cam twitter is mostly Safe for work. Once in a while you might catch a nipple like in this photo. However, I don't post a lot of this kind of content per say. My cam twitter is an information and promotional feed. There are other places to get access to my content. But let's just take it one step at a time. I welcome you to follow me on twitter and get the process started. If you are new to cam sites, just speak up. Creating a profile and purchasing tokens is really an easy process. I'll help you out.
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