There is a phrase that is circulating in the community "was never envious of other people going out, But I'm very envious when he saw the boy playing with his father".
It turns out that this expression is not merely an expression of just why, if we notice can be counted on the fingers of the people surrounding us that the relationship between her son with his father near, very rare.
Let us remember our son said "Gee, Dad is great! Kok Papa can know anyway? " At present moment, we definitely feel proud to be a father and would be more than happy if our running advice. But over time may be due to the busyness of work or not return home for days because the task of working out of town, a father does not have much time to meet with his children, if your child still admire you? Or, is he getting big, respeknya against you seems to diminish? How can you stay close to Your son as he is about to go up?
Now let us discuss some of the causes of troubled a father close to his son
- lack of time with his son
In most countries is the main breadwinner father. Often, because of the demands of the job, they are not there at home most of the day even the father barely had time with their children.
Do you guys also experienced it? Try Please note how much time you spend together with Your son? For a week or two ahead, try to write down the amount of time spent with him every day. You may be surprised at the results.
- Father Less give an example of a role model For his son
ost men almost never hang out close to their father during their upbringing. So the time they becoming a father they have no role models or examples.
What are its effects?
It is difficult for a dad to speaking from heart to heart with his sons.
In other situations, some men know both their fathers, but their relationship is not warm.
A father becomes difficult to reveal affection to their children. Muungkin this is the cause why a father it's hard mengunggkapn his feelings to his son
- View descending down family traditions
In some traditions, there lho that considers the role of fathers in child rearing are not required. For example: There is a tradition of mengangap take care of the child is generally regarded as a task of the wife. In other cultures, the role of the father is just as strict discipline enforcement there is even a culture where fathers are not allowed to play with the kids for fear it will reduce their authority. The existence of such views make the father puzzled whether they are encouraged to express affection to their sons, or whether it is considered inappropriate?
- If you are a father and is currently the face of one or more of these constraints, then try the following suggestions:
* Try as much as possible, involve your child in daily activities.
For example, if you are working on tasks at home, invite him to help. Sure he's thrilled to work alongside his hero and role model, his father!
* take some time to play together.
Play is not just a chance to have fun. While playing a son could communicate very well with his father.
* Look for the Interest/hobby that is similar to your son
because while most teenage boys look indifferently at his father's efforts to communicate then by doing things together yg demand can be one solution
* Wake Up Her Confidence.
When you step on the teenage son he must need praise his father in order to develop into a responsible adult men. And most fathers to be stoic about it Indeed, there is not a relationship that is free from the tensions and difficulties. But surely, son of you most likely want to remain close to his father. It's been reasonably we want to remain close to the people that help us succeed, right?
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