Once in awhile life throws us with so much inexplicable hurt that we become so lost and eventually makes us broken. Because of that, others even think of claiming their own lives and sadly some have successfully done it just as things get so unbearable for them.
No one really knows how to deal with brokenness the exact way and universally as each circumstance that we have or we are in is distinct. That kind of feeling causes some psychological issue such as depression or behavioral disorder like that of mood swings. When we are stricken by this, this makes us put in a situation where we just want to completely halt what we love to do. Our passion in doing something has just suddenly gone.
All of us were broken, have been broken, or are broken. This life has no guarantee of all joys and joys as we continue existing. This life we have is not all about blossoms always.
But what makes us broken in the first place?
Many reasons. There are many of them. More often than not, it is about questioning our worth, are we good enough? Knowing that we could never see such great development in our lives in terms of career, financial stability, and even basic needs. Or in relationship - do we really matter to someone who matters so much to us in the first place? Sometimes, the fact that our world revolves around a person and when it is unfortunately not well requited, makes us hate ourselves and makes us think we are worthless. Those things lead to brokenness which is more than complex to put the pieces back together.
And how do we cope with such a situation?
Crying does help for some as they are releasing the baggage that is stuck on their hearts. “For some” means both gender, it is not an act that is exclusive for women.
Listening to music which has a lively upbeat can help but not so much as it makes us get away from the real situation that we are in. Listening to melancholic songs does help as it places us to the reality that we are experiencing. When that happens, we never delay the pain of brokenness and little by little we will recover then.
However as mentioned earlier, there is no universal or an ultimate way to make a person gets back to his senses soon when being stricken by brokenness. Finding a way to save us from the worse case scenario that is claiming our lives is something that we all should think about.
This is a continuation of my PAUSE FOR THOUGHT BLOG: WEEK 34
~Month of AUGUST
Week 33 click here HELP RIGHTLY! | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 32 click here HOW DO YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE? | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 31 click here HAVING “DON’T CARE” ATTITUDE TO WIN | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
~Month of JULY
Week 30 click here NEVER FORGET TO REWARD YOURSELF | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 29 click here CLING TO THAT TINY HOPE | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 28 click here WHEN IN DOUBT, LISTEN TO YOUR INSTINCT | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 27 click here WHAT OUR DREAMS NEED... | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
~Month of JUNE
Week 26 click here GIVE YOURSELF A BREAK | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 25 click here BEST OF LUCK TO THOSE WHO KEEP GOING! | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 24 click here BEST OF LUCK TO THOSE WHO KEEP GOING! | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 23 click here CHANGE, FRIENDSHIP, AND NO ONE STAYS THE SAME | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 22 click here MONEY AND LIVING TO UPLIFT OTHERS | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
~Month of MAY
Week 21 click here …AND DREAMS ARE REAL, BE BOLD! |PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 20 click here NEVER LOSE HOPE IN LOVE |PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 19 click here DEVELOP YOUR POTENTIAL FULLY, NEVER SETTLE FOR MEDIOCRITY |PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 18 click here REJECTION IN LOVE: HOW SOME MEN SEE IT| PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
~Month of APRIL
Week 17 click here KINDNESS AS A UNIVERSAL LANGUAGE | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 16 click here MAYBE IT'S NOT HOW YOU DO WELL IN SCHOOL BUT HOW YOU DO WELL IN LIFE, GENERALLY | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 15 click here STOP COMPLAINING, CHANGE YOUR SITUATION INSTEAD |PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 14 click here I MADE IT! | SUCCESS OF MY 13-WEEK SELF-IMPROVEMENT CHALLENGE
~Month of MARCH
Week 13 click here ALL BEAUTIFUL THINGS ARE MEANT TO END
Week 12 click here NO THOUGHT OF 'I WISH I COULD HAVE DONE BETTER
Week 11 click here BEING A RESPONSIBLE ADULT AND AGING GRACEFULLY
Week 10 click here IN LOVE? LADIES, DON'T BE BLINDED, SPOT THE ABUSIVE TREATMENT FROM YOUR PARTNER | CELEBRATING INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY
Week 9 click here JEALOUS? WHY NOT CELEBRATE OTHER PEOPLE'S SUCCESS?
~Month of FEBRUARY
Week 8 click here THEY'RE RACIST SO SHE SLAPPED THEM WITH MERCEDES BENZ
Week 7 click here DO NOT TAKE ALL THINGS PERSONALLY
Week 6 click here LIMITING BELIEFS ON THE LANGUAGE OF LOVE
Week 5 click here LISTEN, JUST LISTEN... THAT's ALL WE NEED
~Month of JANUARY
Week 4 click here SEIZE THE OPPORTUNITY, NOW!
Week 3 click here GRANNY, THE CRANBERRIES, AND DEATH
Week 2 click here DON'T LOOK BACK IN ANGER
Week 1 click here OF ADVERSITIES & FAITH
To check the background of this challenge click here PAUSE FOR THOUGHT