1. Introduction
After I published my article titled "Adult-Adolescent Couples Should Avoid Pedophile-Rights Organizations At All Costs," I knew that societal fundamentalists would come flying out of the woodwork to misuse the Newgon Organization's proclaimed missions to mislead and misinform the public. Well, they already have done so.
Instead of warning the public about the dangerous confusion that the term "MAP" ("Minor-Attracted Person") will cause the American people, these societal fundamentalists have wrongfully manipulated this term's unjustifiable presence in the English language to use the clinical terms "pedophile" and "pedophilia" as misnomers. Watch the video below to see what I mean.
The Confusion Over MAPs Is Already Provoking Misleading Pedophile-Panic Propaganda
Okay. I do agree with YouTuber "activist animation5" that the Newgon Organization is in the wrong for attempting to abolish the statutory age of consent in every state jurisdiction of the United States of America. I am just as anti-pedophile as he is. However, here is the problem that I am having with his narrative regarding MAPs and the Newgon Organization.
When YouTuber "activist animation5" inserts the word "groom" in his narrative, I have no issue with it so long as he is describing what deviant adults could do to pre-pubescent children. Where his narrative becomes tacky and ludicrous is when he presents a so-called example of a 12-year-old girl becoming enamored with a 50-year-old man. Hmmm. That man must have a great amount of Sean-Connery charm to be able to flatter an adolescent girl that young.
Now, I would never encourage a 12-year-old girl to become sexually involved with a 50-year-old man. However, whenever one of these societal fundamentalists bring up such an example, instead of waging war against real pedophilia, I start to realize that they are merely pushing their agenda down everyone's throats that older men are the cause of all adolescent girls' problems.
Could a non-Platonic relationship between a 12-year-old girl and a 50-year-old man work? Well, first of all, if the girl is in Tanner 2 or beyond, then this man would not be a pedophile according to the Fifth Edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders ("DSM-5"). If such a partnering were to come about here in the United States, such a couple would become confronted with all sorts of social pressures and ostracism from all the self-righteous do-gooders.
It's interesting how in the American culture, everyone will tell you that the world owes you nothing; whereas whenever an adolescent girl and an adult man enter into a non-Platonic relationship with each other, the whole world thinks they have the right to meddle into these two people's personal business. It's like a great American double standard. Now, should a 12-year-old girl be able to have a sexual relationship with a 50-year-old man?
The fact of reality is that in this day and age, more 12-year-old girls are sexually active than in past decades, and they are not necessarily hooking up with boys their own age or within two years of their age. Below is a clip from House, M.D. in which a 12-year-old girl admits to having sex with a boy 4 years her senior after Dr. House discovers that she is pregnant.
A 12-Year-Old Girl Discovers That She's Pregnant By A High-School Boy Over 16
The elephant in the room here is that not only did this 12-year-old girl consent to sexual relations with someone older than her, but she was confident that she was in full control of what was happening to her when the intercourse did take place. Societal fundamentalists will argue that a girl her age cannot consent. However, the fact of the matter is that she did consent and that she suffered no psychological damage from the sexual contact.
Now, I can be rest assured that some of you are going to argue that the above scenario was nothing more than a storyline in a television show. Many of you may also bring up the point that there is a big difference between a 12-year-old girl having sexual intercourse with a high-school boy and a girl that same age doing so with a 50-year-old man.
I don't deny that non-Platonic adult-adolescent relationships of a noticeable age gap can become toxic under certain circumstances, but, at the end of the day, there is really no one-size-fits-all. Girls as young as 12 or 13 years old have had non-Platonic relationships with noticeably older men throughout time and history, and such relationships have led to long, happy marriages and have flourished into families.
What it all boils down to is that the Newgon Organization wants to cross-pollinate pedophilia with social constructs that exist under the protective umbrella of chronoastiphilia, and societal fundamentalists like YouTuber activist animation5 are serving these pedophile-rights activists in their mission rather than doing anything to protect the youth of the world.
Fact has it that the United States has a 14-percent illiteracy rate that cause clueless individuals like YouTuber activist animation5 to conflate pedophilia with the mostly benign chronoastiphilia in their arguments against pedophile-rights organizations like the Newgon Organization. In this case, they are doing so by claiming that the term "MAP" somehow proves that "hebephiles" and "ephebophiles" are no different from pedophiles, but they are playing right into the New Organization's trap in doing so.
The fact of the matter is that adult men, even middle-aged men, have been falling in love with adolescent girls (12 to 17 years old) since the beginning of time. Nobody can explain this fact any better than Robert Lindsay in his article titled "Alt Left: Teen Sex Moral Panic: The Sex Fascists Double Down – The Sheer Insanity of Modern Discourse on Pedophilia, Hebephilia, and Ephebophilia." These men clearly don't wan't any kind of association or affiliation with real pedophiles whose only goals are to sexually victimize small children under the age of 11.
And, no, I'm not here to snipe at YouTuber activist animation5. I'm only here to let him know that he doesn't know what he's talking about insofar as his propaganda is detrimental to the public interest. Just in case he is reading my article here, he needs to learn about the bigger picture rather than following the ignorant herd of sheep.
The term "AAM" ("Adult-Attracted Minor") is very nebulous in its definition. It could either mean a 17-year-old girl having a serious relationship with her 18-year-old boyfriend or a 6-year-old girl who has a crush on her 32-year-old music instructor. That term probably will not survive its presence in the English language for very long.
In any event, a 15-year-old girl falling in love with a noticeably older man has nothing to do with a middle-aged man sexually molesting a 5-year-old girl. Both scenarios are light years apart in their comparison with each other. I find it somewhat annoying that our society takes such an obsession with adolescent girls having significantly older boyfriends, when it is clear to most of us that the United States has become the deadbeat teenage dad capital of the world.
Our society should be taking a greater concern over the way that teenage boys mistreat and abuse adolescent girls in relationships that some of the most ignorant of the ignorant chalk off as normal adolescent behavior. Once again older men are always being blamed for teenage girls' problems.
YouTuber activist animation5? If you are reading my article, nobody wants to normalize pedophilia except for pedophiles. However, anyone who gets falsely accused of being a pedophile is going to want to ensure that the definition of pedophilia gets narrowed down to what it actually is rather than what the court of public opinion believes it to be. The misuse of this terminology hurts innocent people.
YouTuber activist animation5? If you're reading my article, I'm glad that you brought up the subject of "statutory rape" in your video. Why? If you read the online publication titled The Paradox of Statutory Rape by Russell L. Christopher and Kathryn Hope Christopher from beginning to end, you'll realize that the statutory-age-of-consent laws pertaining to adolescent "victims" are anything but perfect. For example, at the time of its publication in 2012, all 50 states of our nation allowed adult rape victims to be prosecuted for statutory rape if their assailants were below the statutory age of consent.
Now, there are self-proclaimed advocates who want to raise the statutory age of consent to 21 in every state jurisdiction of the United States. If they were to have their way, it would be a recipe for disaster for everyone. After you read Jason B Truth's article titled "Eighteen-Year-Old Women Are Not Little Girls," you'll know exactly what I mean. Moral panics benefit nobody.
YouTuber activation animation5? You claim that a 12-year-old girl having sex with a 50-year-old man is wrong. Well, who are you to tell people what is right and what is wrong? If you read my article, you'll likely ramble on in the comments section about how the law is the law. However, if I ever get summoned for jury duty for a carnal-knowledge case involving an adolescent minor (12 to 17 years of age) and I don't feel that any harm was done, you better believe that I will be voting not guilty in the deliberations.
The doctrine of jury nullification is what protects our society from such tyranny as what the sex fascists have been designing for years. I know I sound cross here in my article, but it gets me angry when people simply refuse to see these kinds of topics in shades of gray.
YouTuber activist animation5? I'm completely on board with you about getting the YouTube channel for The Newgon Organization taken down, but I'm not so for the same reasons as you are. The greatest harm that they are doing to society is trying to annex pedophilia to the protective umbrella of chronoastiphilia, which should never happen. While you're at it, why not start a campaign to remove the term "MAP" or "MAPs" from the English language?
The late John Derek was in his forties when he fell in love with Bo Derek, who was 16 years old at the time. He married her when she was 19 years old. However, it did not make him the evil person that monsters like Donald James Smith, Jesse K. Timmendequas, and Toby Willis are, just to name a few notorious child molesters.
Indoctrinated Teenage Girl
What I found particularly disturbing about the comments section of the above-described video was the post of this one 15-year-old girl who goes by the user name of @grace-hq8kq. Therein she stated:
i'm 15 and get approached by creeps on discord quite a bit and it's disgusting what goes through their minds....how can someone be attracted to literal children it just doesnt make sense to me
Now, I'm not going to bash this girl, because, after all, it is clear that she has been indoctrinated to believe that any man over the age of 21 who falls in love with a girl her age or even as so much sends a bouquet of flowers to a girl her age is somehow no different from a deranged child molester who grabs a 3-year-old toddler from a playground. This kind of indoctrination this girl has undergone appears to be most present in the American culture.
If you compare the American film titled Hard Candy with the Italian film titled Ginger and Cinnamon, you can clearly notice a diametric difference between how American adolescent girls respond to the non-Platonic interest of an older man versus how South European girls respond to it. In both movies, the main female protagonist was 14 years old, but there was one major difference.
In the movie Hard Candy, the 14-year-old girl named Hayley Stark, who arranged to meet a 32-year-old man named Jeff on the Internet, detested all significantly older men who showed non-Platonic interest in girls her age, and she denounced them as being "pedophiles" who were no better than elderly men in raincoats who kidnapped toddlers from playgrounds.
In the movie Ginger and Cinnamon, the 14-year-old girl named Meggy had no problem engaging in a sexually-open conversation with a man in his thirties. Nobody got accused of being a pedophile. Everybody was fine with everyone's behavior in that movie.
@grace-hq8kq? If you're reading my article here, let me just say this to you. Despite what you may think, older men are not the cause of all of teenage girls' problems. In fact, if the dreaded day ever comes that you get raped during your adolescent years, it will likely be a boy the same age who will do it rather than an older man. I pray that nothing like that ever happens to you.
Nevertheless, adolescent boys have the most access to girls your age. Therefore, they are the most likely to commit heinous sex crimes against girls your age. Even the Federal Bureau of Investigation ("FBI") has backed up this fact with data and statistics in the past.
Bristol Palin was a year older than you when she was raped. Who raped her? A 16-year-old boy named Levi Johnston did so. He later became her baby daddy. He was never arrested after Ms. Palin came out with it, because he was the same age as her when it happened; and somehow in the eyes of the American culture, an underage boy can do no wrong when he rapes a teenage girl.
@grace-hq8kq? All you have to do is read my article titled "Underage Boys Usually Get Away With Rape," and you'll realize that the criminal justice system coddles underage teenage boys in cases of forcible rape; whereas that same system will treat men over 21 years old as hardened criminals merely for smiling at a girl your age.
@grace-hq8kq? You're right that it makes no sense that someone is attracted to a literal child. However, in one English dictionary, a girl your age may be defined as a child, whereas, in another English dictionary, you're no longer considered to be a child. An adult man flirting with a teenage girl is not the same thing as an elderly man making sexual advances at a 4-year-old girl.
Now, if anyone reading my article here is going to argue about the difference in power dynamics between an adolescent girl and an adult man, stop typing. If you surf around YouTube, you will find that many adult men are still virgins and have even never had girlfriends before in their lives. If you want to babble on about how such men must have something psychiatrically wrong with them, then we delve into the discussion on whether the mentally challenged have the right to their happiness.
There is simply no one-size-fits-all answer to this argument. Everyone is different. Nobody wants to be accused of being a pedophile if they know for a fact that they are not one.
2. The Contagious Nature Of Societal Fundamentalism
There is yet another YouTube video by a societal fundamentalist named Isaac in which he makes the same mistake as YouTuber activist animation5 in how he addresses his disapproval of the Newgon Organization. As the title of his video reads, I do agree with him that the Newgon Organization is your kids' worst enemy. However, the heart of the problem is the term "MAP," because it wrongfully conflates child molestation with adult-adolescent intimacy. Watch his video below.
Extreme Examples Of Fanatical Hysteria Don't Support Arguments
https://www.youtube.com/live/HHKLPD3CHf8?si=Bm2zsFMK50ERO3nv
Isaac? You don't even begin to know the difference between a pedophile and a chronoastiphile. When an adult man falls in love with an adolescent girl, there is always a chance that he may someday marry her and start a family with her. As she ages, he will continue to be in love with her. Therefore, to say that he is a MAP and that he is no different from a common pedophile does not do justice.
On the other hand, a real pedophile will always be what he is. That is, if he is sexually attracted to a 6-year-old girl and he sexually molests her, he will find himself another victim once she gets beyond a certain age. He's not going to plan a future with her of a nice house and 2.2 kids.
In his video above, Isaac presented an example of a 13-year-old girl having a sexual relationship with a 45-year-old man as being the kind of "evil" that the Newgon Organization wishes to encourage. Well, Isaac. I can see that you are definitely not a Roman-Polanski fan. In any event, I'm going to have you hear me out loud and clear if you are reading this article here of mine.
So many years ago I read an online article from the Mobile Register in which a Karen Tolkkinen performed an interview with a 34-year-old woman and her 63-year-old husband. The couple had been married for 20 years, which meant that at the time they got married, the wife was 14 years old and the husband was 43 years old. For the purposes of reporting this information more easily, I'm going to refer to the wife as Roxanne and the husband as Brent.
What was Roxanne's biggest complaint about the marriage? Her husband didn't beat on her. He never raped her. He never groomed her or took advantage of her. He treated her and their four kids with the utmost respect. So what could her biggest complaint have been about the marriage?
Roxanne's biggest complaint about the marriage was that people treated her and her family disparately. In fact, she told Ms. Tolkkinen that she didn't want her and her family's names disclosed to the public upon publication of the article in the Mobile Register regarding her and her family, because she feared that people would make death threats against them.
It's a shame that our great nation has become as hateful as it has. You can get the full scoop of this story in Part J; Section 1 of my article titled "The Great American Controversy Over Underage Marriage."
Isaac? When you feed into the Newgon Organization's ploy the way you do, you are giving them exactly what they want and you are hurting individuals like Roxanne and Brent.
You can argue that this couple was a unicorn and that most age-gap relationships and marriages involving a teenage partner at their outset don't work out as well as this one did. If that's how you want to be, then at least you acknowledge that there are exceptions to every rule, whatever that rule may be, fair or unjust. No matter how you feel about it, Roxanne's marriage to Brent was never a form of legalized pedophilia.
Brent never used Roxanne for sex. Back in 1983, he did the honorable thing and married her to make the intimacy part of their relationship completely legal.
Now, I completely get it. If Brent took Roxanne to his 25-year high-school reunion, they likely got a whole host of stares and probably got inundated with a number of questions from Brent's classmates. He was probably the only man there who had a 14-year-old wife, but, at the end of the day, he did the right thing.
Most men like Brent would want nothing to do with the Newgon Organization, because they don't want pedophiles hanging around their kids. It's like this. If you are Salvadorian and an MS-13 gang member comes knocking on your front to ask you to join their gang simply because you're from the same ethnicity as they are, you slam the front door in their face. If you're German American or Austrian American, you stay far away from neo-Nazi organizations.
If an adult man falls in love with an adolescent girl and even marries her, he's going to stay far, far away from any pedophile-rights organizations inasmuch as he doesn't want to be associated with them in any way, shape, or form. Isaac? Like YouTuber activist animation5, you fail to see the bigger picture.
3. Final Thoughts
Ladies and gentlemen? Fake pedophilia is becoming an epidemic here in the United States of America. Pedophile-rights organizations are promoting fake pedophilia to bring about hatred against innocent bystanders who have nothing to do with their subversive activities.
As Americans, we are all facing the reality that we live in a nation full of uneducated people who have no idea what they are talking about whenever they go on their rants against pedophilia. Yes! I want child molesters to be stopped and put away. Yes! I don't want pedophilia to be normalized. However, before any of us can wage war against the normalization of pedophilia, we have to understand exactly what pedophilia is and what it is not.
Adult-adolescent intimacy and non-Platonic cross-generational relationships between adolescents and adults do not factor into pedophilia. What is perfectly right for a 15-year-old boy is not always necessarily wrong for an adult man over the age of 21.
Our nation's sex-offender registries are overloaded, because our sex laws are written too broadly and encompass too many benign situations that shouldn't even be included in these same laws. When confronted with a situation that creates confusion like that of the Newgon Organization, ask questions and find out the facts. Don't take societal fundamentalists' word for it. Pedophile-panic propaganda is rampant in our nation and is bringing us down.
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