Hi @firststeps, I had no idea about your husband! I'm so very sorry for everything you've gone through and what you are continuing to go through, I would think. I know this post is 2 weeks old, but I'm just wondering if you found a home for this guy?
I'm originally from south of Windsor, just across the border from Detroit, and for some reason, you look so familiar to me too. I'm shocked and saddened to know that I've talked with you or at least know you from greetersguild and didn't know all of this.
RE: Looking for a good home for my cat