@firststeps, thank you for the reply. May I ask why you need to get rid of the cat? It sounds like a difficult thing to do, especially given the history with your husband and cats too. I'm not judging by any means by asking that either.
My husband has cancer and we are not expecting it to be cured, so to say "it's definitely been rough" I'm sure is an understatement and one that I can only anticipate. It's so easy to prejudge people, but yes, it's a good tendency to fight :) And interestingly enough, steemit has been very helpful for myself and my husband (@briancourteau) because we have both written about our 'plight' and the support we have received has been unbelievable and so much appreciated. I totally get how it's been a productive distraction.
RE: Looking for a good home for my cat