As I tried to think about a good topic to discuss today, I was side tracked by a Tedx presentation by Kio Stark on the importance of talking to complete strangers and the affects it has on you, and the person you are talking to. SO, I decided to take some of her main points away and turn it into my eighth part of the series!
Smile at Strangers, Look into Their Eyes, and Say Hello
Have you ever noticed or thought about how little eye contact most of us have with stangers? Why? Are we afraid of them? What keeps us from opening our hearts to people we don't know? I don't really know the answers to these questions, but I do know that there is virtually always a parallel between our attitude toward strangers and our overall level of happiness. In other words, it's unreal to find a person who walks around with her head down, frowning and looking away from people, who is secretly a peaceful, joyful person.
I'm not suggesting it's better to be outgoing than introverted, that you need to expand tons of extra energy trying to brighten others' days, or that you should pretend to be friendly. I am suggesting, however, that if you think of strangers as being a little more like you and treat them not only with kindness and respect but with smiles and eye contact as well, you'll probably notice some pretty nice changes in yourself. You'll begin to see that most people are just like you - most of them have families, people they love, troubles, concerns, likes, dislikes, fears, and so forth. You'll also notice how nice and grateful people can be when you're the first one to reach out. When you see how similar we all are, you begin to see the innocence in all of us. In other words, even though we often mess up, most of us are doing the best that we know how with the circumstances that surround us. Along with seeing the innocence in people comes a profound feeling of inner happiness.
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