In this complex world we find ourselves and in a society where one is faced with constant pressure coming from different society. There are long list of desires that are to be met or at least expected to be meet either from ones family, friends or even your own personal goal, but among all the desires, there are two constant desires I believe every individual face and that is the financial security and endless love.
I will start by saying that both of them have so much of value and in any of them that you are able to achieve, it gives you this awesome form of Fulfilment and they each stand for different human experiences. For me, choosing between financial security and endless love is a difficult one for me to make but well you will find out in this post the ones I choose at the end of the day.
Let me start by establishing what Financial Security and Endless love. I called Financial security as the foundation of stability. Trust me there is something called financial stress and one of the benefit financial security will make you to avoid is what I called financial stress.
When I talked about financial security, it means the ability to meet your basic financial needs and not only that been able to plan for the future financially without financial worry. Being able to achieve financial security will give you stability and this stability can help you to achieve a lot of things for yourself and even in the society. Let's come to the practical benefits of the financial security, I will say it helps you to be able to deals with life's challenges more effectively.
Talking about Endless love also. I called it the Emotional Fulfilment. Sorry I might be putting you to suspense if you are reading this post but I just need to point out the importance of both of them. When we talk about endless love, it means you are able to establish the deep emotional connection and trust me, this can enrich you so much. This involves the romantic relationship you have with people, the family bond you shared with your family members and also the close friendships you have around. This can gives emotional support to you when you are in die need of it. In fact I will say every human being needs emotional support at every journey of your life.
Now comparing both of them and choosing which one I will go for. Well it is quite difficult to choose because as you have seen, the importance of both of them is really quite needed that you can not do with one at the expense of others. You need both of them. What is the essence of you having financial security when you don't have emotional support, it will get to a time and even with your riches, you will be lonely and that might lead you to depression.
And also what is the benefits of having endless love and you are constantly suffering from financial stress and worries. Trust me it can really be frustrating when even though you are surrounded with family members and friends but you can not meet your basic financial needs, it can really be frustrating. So I conclude at the end of the day that both of them are very important. There is a way you can balance both of them by applying the holistic approach.
What do I mean by that, balancing both of them involves you integrating both the practical and emotional goals needed. You can use your financial stability to establish good relationships around you and in fact also you can make use of the emotional connections you have around you to also achieve your financial goals and achieve financial stability also at the end of the day. Even though some people may prefer financial stability over emotional support as that is based on personal values, I will say for me, I need both in my life. As I am financially stable, I still need my family bond and emotional support to keep going irrespective of the financial stability I might have in my life.
As I conclude, rather than going for one, I think we can have both of them and live with it in our lives. All we just need is by balancing both of them in our life. At the end of the day, both of them are very important and needed in everyday of our lives and having one at the extent of others can really be causing a disaster. At the end of the day, I will settle for having both because both of them are very much important.
This post was inspired by the #inleo community and my entry to the #septemberinleo monthly prompt day 18. Feel free to check it out and participate.