I met my ex wife was in 2010, she was a singo moda of one "4 years old then" she working to provide for herself and child, she was 27 and I was 30, I needed a good woman to marry;
I didn’t let the fact that she was a single mother affect how I saw her. I treated her with so much love and respect. She told me the man responsible for her child abandoned her when she was pregnant so I took responsibility of the child. I changed his name to mine after I married the mother.
I’ve done nothing but love this woman with everything in me. I put her kid in a good school and established a good business for her to operate. I never took a penny from her business, I only put in more money for her to expand and be a boss of her own. She bought her own car aside what I gave her in 2021 and started building a house she claimed she wanted her mother to occupy.
We have two kids together, making three in total. I’ve only been a good father and husband to my family. I don’t interfere in my wife’s business, I respect her ideas so I only encourage her to grow.
I work full time, I’m my own boss but I still make sure I go to work everyday and spend the normal hours I’ve to at work. My wife does same but sometimes I try to visit her at work and on several occasions, I met her absence. Her excuse was always, she went to check on some materials. I have always believed her.
Three months ago an issue of DNA came up at work. One of my employees said he went to do it after he discovered his wife was still in contact with one of her ex lovers but the result was positive, he was the father of his children.
That drove me to conduct a DNA on my own kids. I thought it was a waste of money at first, but after careful consideration, I decided it was necessary, since my wife was once with someone before me.
I never saw or heard her talk of this baby daddy since we met. I doubted the results would be anything else than what will say the kids are mine. After all, I even changed her child’s name to mine.
So the results came out two weeks ago. I went for it and when I checked, neither of the kids are mine.
I was so shocked!
I said nothing!
I only stayed away from the house for three days so I could calm down. After that, I invited her parents and mine over and made her read the results of the test to them herself. She didn’t know why I called the meeting, I shocked her and everyone else.
She confessed at the meeting that the kids were all for Owura, her baby daddy. The man she claimed abandoned her. She was using my money to feed Owura. Owura was occupying the house she claimed to be building for her mother.
Owura knew me all along. My wife would go and stay at his place for hours and then return to the house, saying she’s from work.
I took everything from her. Every single penny. Even the house and car she bought for herself, I took it. I told her to take me to court if she wanted.
I sent her away with the kids to go and stay with their father. Only thing I didn’t touch was her bank balance, if she had any.
Over 14 years that I was with her, she did nothing but deceive me. Make a fool out of me. I regret ever meeting her. I live in pain and regret every day sir.
A simp gnashing his teeth after making a terrible choice of partner;
MY OPINION
This is why i always advised men to never marry a singo moda, you will raise another man's children and in the end you will realise you were used and dumped, her children and her baby daddy will always come first, she will never respect and appreciate you because you know why? You degraded yourself by settling for the lowest!
Singo modas don't date and marry for love, they only date and marry for survival, imagine the calamity this simp brought up in himself, if he had married a younger woman who is innocent and a virgin with no child from another relationship, no baggages or past relationships trauma and experiences he would have been a happy man today but unfortunately he went after another man's family and woman, he went after a left over.
A singo moda is a left over!
Just imagine the complete waste of time, years, days and months wasted and resources down the drain, imagine he had married a younger childless woman that is a virgin; most of you simps never learn and that's why i love it when you gnash your teeth because it's satisfying,
Learn now else you will cry later, you will gnash your teeth and remember I Francis has been warning you over marrying 33+ women and single mother's even divorcees don't marry, the ex husband left her for a reason and that reason may kpai you.
Have sense my brothers, never waste your commitment on who is undeserving, worse is that even the age difference isn't okay at all, imagine marrying a woman you're older than with just 3 years, you're in your twenties when you are supposed to be focused on building your wealth and even if you wanted to marry it should have been a woman of less than 24 but no, he went after an oversized iron condemn beeeech.
Sermons over!