MY THOUGH ON DOUBLED DATING IF IS WRONG OR RIGHT
Personally, I think relationships are meant to be about love, trust, and respect. None of that is present when one double-d
dates.
I have heard ladies say that they cannot trust or respect boyfriends until they marry them, and I ask each time, “If you are with someone spending your time, emotions, energy, and finances and yet have no trust and respect for them, then does that not mean you have a problem? Does that not mean you are a child?” because the last time I checked, only a child rushes into things without proper thought and planning and no consideration of the cost to himself or herself.
When you commit to a relationship, you are saying in essence that the person is someone you like or love, as the case may be, and want to pursue an exclusive partnership with the person. The idea is that no one else is then allowed to be as close to you as they are or have the kind of access to you that they do.
Then you start to build together and make the relationship grow to the point that if marriage is what you are both after, it goes there with time. How soon depends on each individual relationship, so we cannot have a benchmark for everyone on timing.
Furthermore, if you're double dating, you won't have time to do a lot of things for yourself because you're always running around to spend time with both your partners. Jumping from one partner to the other is going to eventually make you feel exhausted, and you are bound to have emotional trauma.
In conclusion, double-dating to me is no option, and it's unhealthy for one's mental health, and I don't advise anyone to venture into such.