Celebrating Life Differently: A Reflection on Minimalism and Meanin...

I stay away from crowded areas, I like peace more than the chatter of people. And most of the time I prefer to be alone and I am happy to be busy with my work and I feel very good in doing so. It is not that I am anti-social, I also socialize with my friends, and family and socialize with people but I do not like people's nonsense and I do not waste my time in doing so and I use the time I utilize. Many such moments come in life when we want to celebrate them but not every moment is worthy of celebrating. I believe in that. Nowadays, people even cut cakes for every month of their children and celebrate it with great pomp. It's okay but if you do then it's good but why show it to people? Maybe they are doing this just to show off or to get a few likes, I don't know if this is the case, I can only guess.

I wouldn't say I like birthdays that much and I wouldn't say I like going to weddings. I don't know why people spend so much money on such things. I agree that it is good to do things for the happiness of small children, but if you are spending for your satisfaction or to show off to people, then you are a fool. In just a few years, I have seen around me how many things have changed, like earlier birthdays were celebrated at home, now big tents are set up and hotels are booked for birthdays, this is a luxury for rich people. Also, if poor people who do not even have two meals a day start doing this, then it is not known where society will go. Sometimes I feel worried just thinking about all these things, what do you think about this?

There is a small girl in our house who will turn 2 years old in April. I am very excited about her because her presence brings a different glow to the house. You all must know how much joy there is with small children. These days, more and more small children waste their time on phones and believe it or not, they have become smart enough to know how to operate everything. I don't know how they will be when they grow up, but right now all the children seem very intelligent to me. I am very excited for her because her birthday is coming up and she will be 2 years old then let's see what happens, we have made some plans and I try to teach her good things all the time and she I keep my mobile phone away from such things which can disturb others. In childhood, children's minds are very sharp, whatever you teach them, they immediately grasp it and if you start teaching them good things right away, it will become their habit and they will become like that, so my effort is to make her read books. Teach and inspire for good things and let's see what happens.

Although I have not planned anything special for her birthday, we do organize a small party every year since she was born there. This will be her second birthday. Now she speaks and understands everything (not all though). She is very smart. I have planned something special for the celebration, I can't reveal the plan right now but I will share the photos of the day. I thought that I would make a special kind of cake for him and gift him a bicycle. That's all for now. The rest of the family must be thinking something or the other. Let's see what happens next. I am very excited I have given some children my I have seen them growing up before my eyes and it is amazing to see how time flies I can't believe how I too am growing up in age and at the same time those who were small children, babies, maybe we are our age. We may not be able to predict that much, but when we see people around us, we get an idea of how they are getting older and perhaps we too are getting older. This is the custom of life, whatever has come must go and everything has a time limit, similarly, our body also has a time limit.

I believe that you should not do anything to show it to others, if you find happiness in something then you should do it. It does not matter what people think or what people say about it. You have to celebrate even if it's the smallest thing. Do it. It doesn't matter who says what or thinks. People keep saying something or the other. Just be yourself and keep spreading happiness. Because happiness increases by sharing, I am very excited. Let's see what happens for the upcoming birthday. I have also made some savings. I will not have a big party for it, but still, some expenses will have to be incurred. I am thinking that I will handle it myself and let's see what happens.