Life Seems to be hard not for me and not for you only but for all of us, but the question which I have asked myself who is the one who live in comfort and do not think to much and is not suffering from the pressure, I think this one all of us envy but we can also do like him if we know what he did.
I think the one who love in comfort and in a peaceful life who the one who think in positivity and the one who have the ability to stop thinking in the time he want that and I would to explain this point as it is a hard point to be discussed, what makes us suffer and feel stress is that we think about that and we know that and I will get a word of "Blessing of Ignorance" as the one who do not think like that could feel comfort.
When you know that there is not a problem so there will not be a problem and I think that it is all about thinking as one is looking to the half of cup that is full and the other is thinking about the empty half so if you could find the bright side of your life then you could have a peaceful life and you could not complain about the dark one.
Your mind is controlling everything and this is the point that you have to know as when you set with yourself for few hours you may be happy in one hour and in the other one would be sad and this is while you are alone without any outside factors so you have think positively so you have all hours with happiness.
It is time to change your mind first to do whatever you could so you could change alot of things inside you and this is the point that I need to have and to train at, for me to control other one mind with ideas is easier than controlling my mind but I have downloaded some books to help me to do this.