Good relationship in most cases takes a long while to be formed because there we have to persons from different backgrounds trying to work as friends. Before considering having a lasting relationship with someone there are things I do consider first, the person I seek to be my friend most be someone who have common views with me.
This common view is very important, as this saying always go..."show me your friend I will tell you the kind of person you are". So if we have divergent views in many things no business coming so close because there is no way we will come to settle. As a young girls that was my guiding principle when selecting friends, as a grown adult it has helped me so much. There is this particular lady I met one time who just looking at her way of life for a while is someone who likes extravagant living so much. I cautioned myself and drew a quick line between us. Shortly I met her co-wife and before long we began to relate so closely because she is my kind of person then the first I met was very furious about our relationship. That didn't bother me so much because we are all adults and can tell when something is good for us our not.
Staying by my values when it comes to making friends have saved me from lots of trouble especially in this present times that things gets so difficult, if as a woman I allow myself to be negatively influence it may come to a point that I will not even pay my children's school fees or I will rather choose to buying luxurious things because that's what the other lady does and that's all to make name for myself.
Situations in many families are very alarming because of the present economic challenge that befalls many countries of the world. This is when it is so vital to apply scale of preference that is going for the most important at a time. It is also important to stay away from borrowing up at down, families should learn how to stay within their earnings. It is also important to cut down on expenditure, there are many alternative to things. Personally I have learnt how not to take milk regularly I seek for another way to get those nutrients that can be gotten from milk at a less expensive way. I go for my home made cereals which has lots of nutrients with it and at the same time I am sure about what is going into my system. Some of these products now they miss lots of things which is not in any way healthy for consumption just because they want to make more gains.
This is my entry for the #marchinleo prompt with the topic Relationships, Friendship, family situations. Thank You for visiting my blog.