We may have differences with our partner but it is always essential to talk about it. This is how love is taken care of.
Sometimes one takes love for granted, because everything is fine and one believes that the other person is going to be there and that he or she is not going to leave, and then one day one gets careless, one gets hurt unintentionally and one day that person is no longer there, because he or she gets tired, leaves and leaves us.
To love is NOT only to feel, it is to take care of a hug, a kind word, a "I made you coffee", a "come let's talk". Love is that hand that accompanies you, holds you, and precisely love leaves, when it does not feel valued.
It is essential to understand that love is not eternal by itself. It is built, it is appreciated, it is sustained. To take care of love is also learned above all, when we avoid the emotional self-sabotage that often unloving opens the door.
To solve a conflict requires two people willing to step out of pride, assume their responsibility and connect from vulnerability.
And you! ... Would you be able to manipulate your ex to force him to get back with you? The truth is that love is not imposed, it is not demanded and, much less forced. If you had him and lost him, perhaps the true act of love is, now, to let him go.
Letting go hurts. I know. It's like letting go of something that your hands have been holding for so long, even if it doesn't do you any good anymore.
That emptiness is scary, but it also opens up the space to build something new.
Today you may feel lost, as if the pieces don't fit together, as if the pain has no end. But change starts with one step, a small and conscious one: deciding to take care of yourself.
Not everyone who claims to love us is really with one. There are people who are only with us as long as it suits them, as long as we are cheerful, functional, as long as we do not represent a problem. But when we fall, when we break down, when emotionally we don't give more, they disappear, and we are left like that, hurt and disappointed.
If everything that hurts, the false or ungrateful is removed from someone's life, hallelujah for that! I lived it recently, they felt vulnerable to me, at a bad time and simply instead of staying, shaking my hand they left without explanation.
These kind of people only come up to you when you are well, they think they call themselves the best friends, but they can't stand that you are in the good times only in the bad. But I had to follow, let go, be reborn and reconnect... Everything happens!!! That is the formula to get ahead in the face of differences, to free and understand ourselves more as people. This applies to the couple, parents and children, siblings, friends.... Whoever it is...
On the cover, the difference is natural between the birds and the crags of these fishermen before the voracious attack and appetite of the birds to eat all the catch of the day, they preferred the easy before catching their own food. This is what happens in relationships with people.
We say goodbye to June with a grateful heart and our eyes set on everything we want to achieve in July 🌿 May what we left behind have taught us and what is coming inspire us to keep improving ✨ Beautiful day take care.
Janitze.🌷
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera eighties Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited by me with Canva
Translation with |DeepL