To say NO, is to set limits...

And that may annoy many. Especially if they were used to the "Yes" permanently.

How do you affect others with your decisions?

Sometimes we ignore it until we have the consequences in front of us, and many times, they are irremediable.

My reflection about it...

That if we have to be careful with the decisions we make, no matter how small they may be, they can unleash great and devastating consequences.

The problem is when we make decisions from immaturity, thinking that it is the best thing at that moment... and as time passes, we see that it was not a correct decision, and it is already too late to correct it.

In that case, it remains to accept reality and live it as best as possible.

Thinking a little about Oppenheimer, who never really thought about the consequences of the creation of the atomic bomb, but when he realized what the consequences of it were, he simply wanted to create something extraordinary using physics and achieved it, but he did not think about the use that would be given and the consequences for the world.

Decisions that may affect others in the end, or feel guilt about its.

Unfortunately, we all want to leave a mark in life, and we don't always look at the consequences of actions, because that's life and compendium of trial and error, and what for some is something insignificant, for others not, it's all a matter of perspective.

You feel that your decisions have been somehow well-thought-out depending on you and others, in my experience I have been in both situations and I must say that when I have thought about others when making decisions it has gone wrong for me, I have ended up with the tables in my head, I am a very empathetic person, and it has been my strength and weakness at the same time.

Therefore, you have to find a balance, but firstly think about yourself, because most of the time when you make decisions based on how you can affect others you end up crashing into a wall that says "I didn't ask you to do or not do that for me".

A great truth, living in awareness of our decisions and choices can often affect people positively or negatively.

In this context, I very often see family or friends who make decisions without stopping to analyze well and thinking that a third party (family or friend) "is not going to let me die", it is very easy to make contact with someone who puts their hand in you.

I think that if before making a decision we think that we are alone, we would think the thing better, without involving third parties. That position is totally immature and irresponsible.

Decisions, as they cost... But life is made up of decisions (I was wondering: Do I respond to this post?) that I write about setting boundaries when I say "NO".

I think that yes, life is us and our circumstances. That's where decisions come into play.

We must reflect alone, I do it in the silence of the night, when everyone is asleep, with a previous prayer, and so far I can say that I have made the best decisions.

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By the way, my kitty Molly says No, this is my territory, do not pass without asking human.

We live in complicated times. It's up to us to think beyond just our interests. Do you agree? What do you think? See you in the comments.

Janitze