Hello, I am a Spanish speaker and I used a translator to read your post, but the translation was not entirely satisfactory. Perhaps it’s because a careful reading and a more human analysis and interpretation of the text are needed... Anyway, I hope I was able to understand a couple of things correctly.
I found your way of expressing your mental and emotional world interesting. I like finding content that is not completely literal; sometimes it’s refreshing to read something more creative that envelops you in its own atmosphere.
I agree that independence does not mean indifference. Although I believe it is important not to depend on others' validation, it is essential in a healthy relationship to feel heard and valued, as that is one of the things that demonstrates real love. I don’t think it’s possible to love, belittle, and ignore at the same time, at least not intentionally, consciously, and consistently.
I think I understand what you mean when you say that sometimes you don’t know where you end and others begin, and that you are afraid of being completely swallowed... Perhaps it’s about losing our essence and individuality due to our love and how much we tend to engage and connect with the other person. If I’m wrong, please correct me 🍁
I love that one of your love languages is sharing music; it’s extremely interesting that you define it as something sacred. I also use music to express what I feel, and since being with my partner, our shared songs have a very special meaning.
Thank you very much for your contribution to the community 💙
RE: How did you love?