Hello everyone!
I've only been a member of the community for about a month. I was overjoyed to learn about this @motherhood community because I am the mother of a three-year-old child. I am a mother who adores her child and is ready to learn from her experiences and engage with other mothers, I think I will be an active member of the community.
Back when I didn't have a kid, I was the type of person who wanted to go to different places and try new things, but because I had children and didn't have much time, so instead I would experience with my child according to my conditions. It's been said that life is a flow, and that wherever the stream flows, we follow it and strive to adapt as best we can. Women like myself, who are just entering a new period of life after having a kid, are often melancholy and worried since they have to care for a newborn. However, after a while, I recognized that as time passes, many new things will occur. We'll figure out how to adapt and live better, things won't return as we want them to.When my mind is clear, I feel happier and more appreciative of the present moment.
Allow your kid to partake in outside activities.
My husband and I frequently take our children on family vacations to give them additional opportunities to interact with nature. My son got more confident, bold, and interested in bonsai and pets as a result of this. Because the infant is still young in an eastern country like ours, it should be protected at home and limited to the street because it is easily sick, but thankfully, my husband and I do not live with grandparents so we are able to go out. We allow my children to go outside to play very early, he will accompany his parents to the grocery and to coffee on weekends.... Now I'm overjoyed to have a youthful companion who will accompany me on my journey.
Allow your child to help with home chores alongside other family members.
I frequently allow my children to participate in activities with my mother, ranging from housework to going to the market. These are tiny things, but once your child experiences them, he or she will become more daring and confident. I took my son to the market with his mother for the first time when he was two years old, he can talk and recognize some foods. When he arrived at the market, his eager countenance revealed that his mother was overjoyed, and he was enthralled by everything from the fish stand to the fruits and vegetables. Everything was so much bigger and more than it appeared in the books and in Mom's tiny kitchen.mommy, mommy, Big fish.....wow, wow shrimp, wow... This are just a few of his adorable expressions. 2 eyes him wide in enjoyment. Through that market, I decided to allow my son travel to additional locations and what events are suitable, I will let him participate. Carry out necessary home tasks, such as: cleaning the dining table, gathering vegetables with his mother, watering the plants, feeding the fish... many thing small, but he recognizes that his parents are busy with many tasks, and that the entire family is more bonded when they are together work on the house together.
Take part in things that child enjoy.
My son enjoys hearing his mother read books, tell stories, and ride a bike, so I make an effort to do likewise with him. Every day after I get home from work, I'll spend 15 minites to watch him ride his bike; sometimes it's just encouragement and encouragement so he can ride better. Before bedtime, I'll spend approximately 30 minutes with him reading a book and telling him interesting stories.
I'm busy with work, as are many other mothers here, but taking use of the time I have with my children to be friends and grow up with them is also a wonderful experience.
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