Money is the most needed and valuable thing in current society. Some people say that you can buy everything by money. Really everything? In this society everything can be said in a thought.What will happen if we mix money and relationships together? Ah let me first explain this term. Sometimes it happens that we get into an exchange of money within our relatives. So my todays topic is how does that effects.
In our society money is the root of everything. Wether you say good or bad, honesty or dishonesty, success or failure, unity or division everywhere you may see the cause of money. Let me explain those in a short way.
Honesty or dishonesty: Money is a most desired thing to lead our life. Some people earn this currency in a honest way throughout their life. Though they may have less but they earn contentment for happiness. On the other hand if a person get into the greed of money then his way is the dishonesty. He try to attempt every possible way to earn money whether it is good or bad way.
Unity or division: Ah this one explains my todays writing motto. Sometimes it happens that our friends or relatives falls on a sudden problem and ask us to lend them some money. If you help them in that time they will remember that with a great respect. That will strengthen your unity with them. Its the desire of every person. But sometimes it happens that we take that money but don’t return in the time and it leads to direct or indirect problems.Which creates a distance among both of you.
The most common scenario in our country is when peoples get into the distribution of their paternal property.No one wants to have a less penny. Everyone tends for equal or even more. All of them wants to have the most benefitted part of the property. Like if our dad had two shops one in dhaka another in a village. Everyone will try to take that in dhaka which will lead to a great problem. It is seen a lot around us. Almost every family face this issues.
Suppose you have lend some money to one of your friend for helping him in a time of danger. But he has forgot to return or having troubles to return that but you are also in need of that money. So i start to pressurize him,i admit its his duty and its your right to ask for that but sometimes he doesn't able to return you that and you came down to use bad behaviour or even harsh words which was not expected at all. In this way a friendship goes into the end. Its also seen among our relatives also in some cases. Though many a times it doesn’t happens like this but its also happening.
When you are in a relationship you both are hangouting,chilling, having fun. In a time of quarrel people say a lot things. Somehow if you ever say that i have spent a lot of money behind you. Can you imagine what is gonna happen next? Ah! It gonna happen a massive blast. No matter what you do into your relationship, how much you spent to make your lover happy and so on. You can't bring out the money term it will hamper your relationship. No one can bear taunts about money.
So it is best for us not mixing them together or of we do both of us should be careful about this because it can create a lot problems from nothing.
So guys that's all. Everything i said here is my own opinions you may agree or disagree on some points. If you have anything to say on this feel free to let me know through comment. I will be very much happy on that. Thank you for reading. Follow me to get connected.