If you had one wish to make, and that wish would come true, it would be that every woman married or unmarried seeking to be blessed with a child, do not have to go through rough times before they get one.
This wish was totally far from to what I had in mind to write on when I saw the question on the hive learners disccord. But along the line I got a bad news and a very painful story that made me so sad over the weekend.
A friend of mine was looking so pale in the video she posted on her WhatsApp status so I reached out to her to check on her, and she opened up to me that she had just suffered another miscarriage, the 5th one in 5years of her marriage. I was stone cold frozen, I couldn’t find the right words to console her at first. I had always said a silent prayer for her in my heart each time I remember her and that she has been married for 5years and still waiting on God but I had no idea what she had been going through all the while.
She had carried out multiple IVFs and the last one was so far gone up to 6months when the doctors told her the baby wasn’t breathing anymore. When she narrated her pains to me and all she has been through I was sore to my heart.
I mean no one deserves to go through so much pain just to hold their bundle of joy.
I being one who is waiting for my own bundle of joy myself I could relate to her a bit aside the pains and heartbreaks, it can be a whole roller coaster of emotions and expectations to be very honest , and the fact that everyone feels you are not okay because you haven’t conceived yet and they keep Asking
‘hope you are not worried o’
Like hell yea you would be a little bit worried too if you were in this shoes no cap.
Having heard her story that night, I prayed with her, and tried to boost her confidence in the Lord some more because such experience can take a toll on ones faith if not carefully watched. And I am Trusting that yahweh, the faithful father will show up for her.
(my twin baby niece and nephew)
So yes if I had one wish to make that would come through it would be raining babies in every home seeking for one or even twos.
We do not have the power to control
Things and everyone’s time and season differs, at the end of the day we as children of God know that we have a faithful father that never fails so this is where we should draw our confidence from.
I also implore a proper medical diagnosis too as you trust in God.
To everyone reading this with expectations I say this with all confidence-
**Yahweh will show up for us all. **
I definitely can’t wait to share my motherhood journey with you guys on here.
Can I get an Amen !!!
ps: it’s ok to have your own beliefs too but for my blog Its Jesus all day everyday, and that’s the only belief I would talk about in my blogs, thank you
