Hi friends, Assalamu Alaikum, how are you all, I hope you are fine by the grace of Allah, I am also fine Alhamdulillah.
No one is anyone without interest
Alas, thinking about the world and reality, it is surprising that no one comes to our side without interest, no one calls for a minute without interest and asks how are you.
Sometimes it seems to me that when the interest can be rescued from someone, we can keep in touch with him a little closer, when the interest is gone, we don't have time to take the news if he is alive.
I have seen many people in my life and still know many people who have kept in touch with me whenever they needed me and never tried to know how I am when the need is over.
But as far as I understand no one is without interest be it your wife be it your lover be it your husband be it your family every person will come to you to save their interest.
A husband loses a wife for example I try to explain to you that a husband first I talk about a husband We had a sister next to us so often when I asked her how are you she would keep her face as if she was talking to people Said less.
One day I was very curious and I asked her why do you talk so little? Then she started telling me with a lot of depth that her husband talks to me whenever he needs and when the need is over, he talks to me again. no
Because of this, I used to notice a lot of pain in my heart. She used to stand alone in the balcony and didn't talk to anyone. He is in a relationship marriage relationship is the most important relationship of human being even in that relationship that man seeks interest when he needs it talks to him when his need is over doesn't talk to him so I understand there is nothing without interest.
Now let's talk about something from the mouth of one of my crows, his brother's wife, that is, my brother's wife was always a bit irritable, she used to shout while talking, so one day I asked my aunt Moni, why does she talk like that? Once she came to our house she was talking very loud to her husband she was bullying her husband then I asked my aunt Moni what is her problem.
Then I heard from my heart that when his brother's wife can give everything to his brother's wife properly, eat and drink everything, then he behaves properly with his brother. With very bad use.
These two cases I have seen in front of me in reality that interest has reached such a level that people can do everything to save interest.
And at the end of the day I realized there is nothing in the world but self interest. If you have any books on saving someone's self interest then I think you should get out of there now. Try to do your own thing and don't try to save your self interest by someone else. If doing is so important then never forget that person.
I pray to Allah that everyone be well, stay healthy and stay safe with your family.