The world that we are living in is something that is having a lot of things that it has to offer as well as the actual things that we are seeing around us might not be the true version of them but it is something that is been some to us in the best possible manner and that has been one of the particular aspects about the world as well because we are only shown the thing that people wants us to see and that has been the narrative how it has always been but something but we have not been able to crack completely and have been under the influence in the way they wanted us to.
There are a lot of deadlines that we have to be meeting as well as there are a lot of responsibilities that we I need it to be accompany as well as there are a lot of such complexity is in our life that I needed to be taken care of and in the middle of all of this there is a version of everything that is what we are seeing around us but at the same time it is one of the biggest illusion as there are a lot of things which is going to be an illusion in our life and one of the most common one is to be having the control with us and that is perhaps the biggest illusion that everyone has.
It is quite common and normal to believe that we are the ones were having control for everything that is going to happen in our lives because all of the decisions that we are going to be making I going to be one of the most influential factors in the way our future life is going to be looking like and the control that we have is going to be on the decisions that we are making which is going to be the biggest factors for our future but at the same time it is something that is always not going to be turning out exactly the way we thought that they are going to be like and that is when this Illusion of control is something which get expose completely.
Right from our childhood itself we are been told that to be achieving certain results we have to be giving in the certain efforts and have to be doing some specific things such as to score good marks we have to be studying good as well as there are a lot of such examples which can be helping us towards achieving the outcome that is quite predictable and that has been something which has always been just for the reason so that we can have control over the things that are going to happen in our life. This is something that can be good to some extent, but we still need to be thinking about the fact that it is only going to be helping us build a little bit of dedication towards the things that we do in order to have that motivation for the result that we are looking for.
There are a lot of things actually which is never going to be under our control and they can also impact our life very deeply as the passing away of a very loved person in our life is something that we never really planned but it is something that is going to happen for sure and it is also not in our control and similarly there are a lot of such other things that can impact us very heavily.
The world that we are living in is already very curetic and it becomes even more important to be perfectly deciding everything will decision that we are going to make because every single of those decisions is going to be very much influential for the future that we are going to be living and at the same time the chaos which we are living in also wants us to be finding a way with which we can feel a little bit more safer and having control over the things that is going to happen around us can be a very good option for that particular aspect which is why we always look forward towards having a bit of control on the things that are going to matter to us which also promotes this Illusion of control over everything in our life as well.
This is something that gets to Deep in our mind said that we are going to be having control over everything in our life but in reality it is not always the case which is something that is going to be harming us at many instances as well such as when something goes out of our plans and happen the way we never intended it to happen we often try to blame our self and that is something which we don't even realize that the things that happened might have actually never had anything to do with us and even if we had to do something with it we might have no chance to change the outcome but still we try to blame ourself because we think that were responsible for everything that is happening around us and we happen to had the control.
The realisation of this illusion is something that is often a very difficult chapter for most of the people in their lives because it often comes through a very difficult realisation as we are going to be experiencing it from a very difficult heart shape in our life which can be one of the most heartbreaking moments of our entire life but that particular movement is something that is bound to come for every person who thinks in this particular manner as they believe that they have control over everything and when that illusion breaks apart it is something that is to have a very different mind set and perspective about life as a whole.
We have to be letting this illusion go from US and start to realise the fat that there will be things which might not always be under our control and we should look forward towards just paying attention to the things that we can control and not over doing us in any situation which is definitely not the ideal thing to be done and that is something that we can be doing at a very easy piece which is going to be keeping us in the best possible mental space as well and also keep us protective and functioning the way that we actually should be and not having any kind of illusion which is not true.
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