Hello everyone, my fellow gentlemen. I'm happy to be sharing this blog because it's pretty important secrets that I finally decided to spread and thankfully I got the perfect community to do this.
Well I'm just going to enter that cave and start spitting secret facts.
Yes, these are those little pieces of information which we tend to keep to ourselves and not share them with anyone.
By us men, we always walk a tightrope of being transparent and being secretive. Sure enough, we are encouraged to be open and vulnerable but still there are some things that should remain only between us and the universe. But what exactly are these secrets?
First of all let’s start with personal battles. Everyone has their own struggles whether it is fighting against our inner devils or past traumas or even coping with mental disorders.
It is important to look for help when such situations arise but this doesn’t mean one should feel guilty for keeping some of them to himself/herself. There is no point in suppressing emotions rather it involves drawing on your strength and resilience within yourself.
Again, relationships are involved. Well, love, desires and other odd things which fall in between all these are the intricate webs.
You see, we all mud to vent sometimes but must we wash our dirty linen for everyone to see? That’s not so cool. Whether it is the most intimate stuff about our romantic lives or the disgusting side of arguments with our partners, some things are better left unsaid. Ultimately, trust and respect form the basic pillars of any healthy relationship.
After that, there comes professional ambitions. Surely all of us have dreams? It is normal to want to get up high on the roof tops and shout out our goals when they include ascending to higher ranks within a corporation or beginning a new career as an entrepreneur.
But then again—sometimes staying quiet about what we aim at can be the best move. It’s not really about being secretive; rather it’s guarding against pessimists and cynics who might dampen our spirits from achieving them
And what about random acts of kindness? You know, those spontaneous generous deeds that improve the state of the world.
There is something special about doing good without seeking acknowledgement, such as helping a friend in need or donating to charity. It is not about being a savior but making an impact even if it means by doing little things.
Family dynamics, personal finance and future plans; these are just a few more examples where discretion may be advantageous. It’s not about hiding who we are or what we do; it’s about honoring ourselves and our relationships by choosing what to share and what to keep sacred.
So, let’s embrace the art of secrecy my dear guys, not as proof of weakness or disgrace, but rather part of wisdom and honor. Because sometimes, keeping things under wraps adds some element of suspense to life, doesn’t it?
@skyehi signing out of the cave to return another day