Hello good people of hive Ghana community and hive as a whole it is another week here for great writers to display their beautiful writing abilities and experiences, the topics given for the weeks are all amazing and interesting, anyways I just want to talk about long distance relationships.
A long distance relationship is a kind of relationship where two or more people that claim to be in love are far away from each other. This particular relationship is always difficult and sometimes do not last
My personal experience with long distance relationships are not quite good although I have been trying my best to keep it but it always end up badly, it will always get to a time were I get stock and tired of the whole process so I have given up on long distance relationship but decided that I will take some surveys by asking people what they think about long distance relationships.
I first met with a guy today while on my work place so I curiously ask him “sir what can you say about long distance relationships” funny enough he smiled and said that first of all it's all about the people involve in it but he doesn't really fancy it even though he is actually in a a long distance relationship at the moment, he was saying that long distance relationships are always expensive because there have to be a strong communication between you both which keeps the bond strong and making the feelings still available. He also said her woman comes visiting after a week spending time together for days before she travels back, his conclusions was that very few long distance relationships work.
Guys as I said earlier I did a little suyvey by asking different people what their thoughts was about long distance relationships. So I met with this other girl..
Her response was.
Hmm long distance relationship is a no for me, I can't afford to risks my feelings and emotions I have to date a guy that I see often and spend good time with him, she also said that being in a long distance relationship without communication makes her feel the person doesn't love or want her, “I can only manage it if we dated before then it happens that he has to travel I will try to understand but not 100% certain” she rounded it by saying that trust is the main function of a long distance relationship.
I loved the second person’s thought because she was very detailed on every point she made.
So I met the last person and same question goes to him.
His response was..
Long distance relationship is not good I my self can't be fooled by it, what do I do when there is urge for sex.. I will end up cheating on her, sometimes partners need others in some difficult times and emotional support is the key, I don't like that thing called video call oo don't be fooled by all those video call stuff it doesn't work that way. He even started advising me not to try any thing long distance relationship 😁😃
Now my heart earned question, what is that special thing that makes a long distance relationship flourish as I have seen few others ending well.
Let talk on the comments section
I still remain @sylvasticks