I agree that single life is best but always a person cannot be single. At the end of the day, we need someone to rely on. We want a shoulder to cry on, an ear to share things and we need human. Now, you will say that human/person can be friend. If that person can be friend then why not your husband or wife?
These days I am single but I will not always be single 😂. Wedding is on its way and I hope it will find me soon like ghost in the dark and deep jungle.
Weddings are really fun things over here. In Pakistan, there are always vibrant kind of weddings where you will find jolly vibe on weddings all around you. From childhood, I had this craze to attend weddings of people.
Food menu of weddings always attract my taste buds that I cannot control myself to run towards wedding venues. I can say that wedding menu has magnet which attracts the most.
Have you ever crashed any wedding ceremony?
As I mentioned that from childhood, I was crazy fan to go and attend wedding ceremonies. I have crashed wedding ceremonies many time in my childhood days. But, there was one wedding which I still remember because on that wedding my uncle scolded me very badly.
I was in 7th standard, mature in the eyes of people but totally a kid from heart, standing with my cousins. We all were seeing celebration of wedding from distance. My heart was urging me to go inside the wedding house. I gave a wild suggestion to my cousin that why not go to this wedding ceremony and enjoy everything like we are real guests.
My cousins got agreed with me and they went with me. We were enjoying the wedding ceremony and enjoying the wedding menu with great delight until my uncle arrived. Ohhhh.... This was climax and turning point of that day. I was shocked to see my uncle there. Then I got to know that my uncle was invited there 😂. Daniyal, who is his son was also with me. Uncle scolded me so badly that I always remain cautious before going to any wedding ceremony 😆.
That craze which I used to hold in my heart is no more alive. Now I don't even want to go on invited wedding ceremonies. I prefer to be at home. No doubt, wedding ceremonies are really full of fun and enjoyment.
Vibrant Environment on Weddings
It's like custom to decorate the home of bride and groom with little star like lights. The whole house shines like sky in the dark night shinning with little and beautiful stars and getting all the attention. These lights became very symbol of wedding ceremonies in Pakistan. Until now, this custom is alive but I am thinking that sooner or later it will fade away. Now people are setting the trend to do wedding ceremonies in wedding halls that's why those old and beautiful things are flying away.
I always love these little lights on wedding days. These give vibe that something exciting is happening and besides these lights I can not really feel that weddings are taking place.
Mehandi & Dholki
These are many customs and rituals of weddings in my country. Mehandi and Dholki are part of these customs. Dholki is all related to singing folk songs and dancing. On the other hand, Mehandi is like night before main wedding function. You can say that it's all about greeting to groom and bride and wishing them best of luck for their life. It's also a jolly night with dance.
Baraat and Wedding
Baraat is arrival towards bride's home for wedding and nikah is known as wedding ceremony. One day after this ceremony there is another event which is known as walima.
Decorations remains very part of these ceremonies and we really do enjoy these eventful days of wedding.
Concluding Thoughts
So, i think being single is good option but being married is best option 😂.
Actually, i want to explore both sides of life. I am living single and fed up with this so single life. Now i need some kind of twist and climax in my life. Let's see what kind of twist will be there in life. Life has so many surprises for me. I have to unpack all those surprise which life holds for me!
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