There are things that should be put in place, before an intending couple comes to live together. The issue of being in a hurry to live together should not be in question. Everything should be handled gradually. I am not always happy when people look for short cuts to get married, as soon as they can, without gradually knowing what I wish. Before a person will decide to get married, there are things to be put in place.
First, prayer is very necessary. The issues of praying when a family is about to begin can never be over emphasized. Prayer paves way, it removes the wishes of the power of darkness. Prayer stops every disaster the enemy is about coming up with, and solves every hidden problem. Prayer bring divine presence, it shows total dependency. Prayer simply indicate that these people are about to go on with me, having their total trust and hope only on me.
When one shows me that I am important and needed, I always partner with such person. Let the intending couples that know I am their March marker, that have fulfilled the principle of knowing the right will,let them always hold hands together and bring to me whatever they feel they need concerning their family. Let them always tell me their decision, what they want to achieve in the marriage, how many children they want to have, what they wish concerning the kids, where they wish to live together and the type of investment they wish to make and their plans concerning the union.the kind of world the union desire. All those things should not fail to be presented to God.
When people are getting married and preparing for the wedding, they need financial readiness. Are there not people who will not prepare themselves financially? Are there not people who have not had what it takes to take care of themselves, yet they are rushing into marriage? Both of them need to be working! Everyone needs to embark on the dignity of labor. Even if the man has the wherewithal to take care of the marriage and wedding,let the woman make sure she has something doing,let no one decide to embark on idleness while getting married. If the woman is financially buoyant, she can take up the spending but let her not make it known to people that she is the one footing the bill.
Finally, their need to be disciplined in spending, Anyone embarking on marriage should know that he or she is undertaking a responsibility. Their imbibed by the intending couple. Even if the man is financially wealthy ,let the woman not use it as an avenue to be lazy, and to be conveting everything in the market. It is not always good a woman get all that comes(fashion-wise).there should be discipline in what people need or want.
Before one get to marriage, before one get involved in wedding, before people come together to produce their kind, let them make sure they are well prepared and equipped, so they will not end up bringing problem to themselves, but they will continue living happier life.