So this guy made a post complaining about how feminists hate men or something, and I want to analyze the comments section, his posts, and his debate-style and tactics to explain how bad it is and how it hurts people.
Before we begin, I want to stress that @mfxae86 is probably not a bad person, but is just overly consumed with a false sense of righteousness that he acts like one. Let's analyze this exchange that showcases just that:
Link to full: https://steempeak.com/psychology/@torico/re-mfxae86-contemporary-feminism-all-men-are-evil-20190226t230242590z
(Note: There is much more, read the full post for context)
So, I don't know this person, but they seem to know the guy in question and is providing a much needed female perspective from someone that he knows, and not just me. The main problem with these sorts of dudebros is that they don't have any women in their lives they genuinely respect. They have women they tolerate and talk to, but no one they genuinely care about the ideas of. And we can see that by the response below:
See this response? First of all, note the time gap. Second, it's a bit overly defensive, no? He's basically saying her thoughts don't matter because there's no data. He's making fun of her for having unique thought and perspectives. He's attacking her for disagreeing with his bubble. Not engaging nicely, attacking. Very important distinction.
To which, she responds as follows:
My response to her sums up what I have to say in regards to this interaction, but it gets worse:
Like, I said there, he responds again by writing out essays about how she is to blame for being bad and needs to apologize to him for being against facts or something.
"own your behavior" - telling an obviously upset woman that she is bad and evil is the definition of disgusting. This alone makes me hate this guy, but it gets worse.
Dumbing down her points to the point of mockery, making her look irrational, making her look stupid. It's disgusting. This behavior is absolutely the embodiment of why people in feminist circles dislike men so much. We shouldn't need to say this, but obviously NOT ALL MEN, but this one, this one right here, definitely is a fucking douchebag.
It gets worse:
He tells her that she is the one at fault, and he is perfectly innocent. Him being a complete and total disgusting jackass talking down to someone for daring to speak up to him is completely fine. She is at fault! How dare she think!
Honestly, this interaction is evidence enough to prove this guy is an unhinged psycopath, but let's go on a little deeper. let's look at his "facts" and "data" that he loves so much.
YEP, HE'S A MILO FAN
His "data" consists of tokens that are paid off by big money to say bad things in front of a camera. He uses Milo as "The Gay Man Opinion" and other women like Hoff Sommers as "The Woman Opinion".
What's interesting is this is all he has. Literal interviews funded by billionaires to defend billionaires. The fucking Rubin Report, dude.
Check out some data on Dave Rubin's setup and who funds his bitch ass "facts" .
Now, let's get to this juicy reply:
So, his "data" is literally just videos of women talking. Guess what, stupid-ass? I am a woman, I am talking. Your (former?) friend is also a woman, and she was talking. We are just as qualified to speak about woman issues as any other woman in your "data" is.
Data?