The real reason why money is so important in our lives can be seen in our preferences. Each of our steps includes a lot of purchases, like when you remember yesterday's expenses while doing some activities. You can ignore the fact that a day in your life could be spent on bigger amounts of money.
It just happens for the daily necessities, the expenses that are needed from establishing your activities outdoors. How about any else? Money is a symbol of private funding that is closer to you getting satisfied by spending it. However, all people have to be smart to gain some money both from self-income or any giving from their close relations.
We have all experienced how money is not equipped for all of our requirements for each period; our salary is enough for our basic needs but not to fulfill our lifestyle. That reality is becoming stronger with a few Instagram posts of meme content from my country's start-ups, which tell salary expenses just gone in minutes for paying a home loan or your Pay Later credits. Its condition is popular and well-tracked in my country.
The Meaning of Money for Me
Then, I am typically money-oriented and do not expect or ask for money from my parents. I respect the two of them a lot in not caring about my priority requirements, and they are not giving me monthly money either. So, I have quite a hardship with my own financial life. I can not be like many people who can purchase a lot of things or make fun of spending money. Sometimes, it feels like a waste of my energy to know this reality, and I feel that my presence there is not important.
But, of course, I have got to advise you about how money could be not just about the expenses of having fun in case this time I try to avoid that value of money-power in my life. I know all of you had full control of your money, and I am here not to relate to what you have done with yours. I just want to make sure that you are now inhabitant-wisely to regulate your money. I was looking now every person who is richer than me likes to spend a lot of money by not knowing well how far it suits for the whole temporary life.
Meanwhile, I know that I have to expenses my money to buy whole things, but in recent a year until now come over with skincare, a pair of cool clothes, food, or somewhat of a things to entertain myself. The worry of the money not chasing again has really haunted me so badly in case I've a hard to getting any jobs right now. Money is an important thing and plays a pivotal role now not only for me but many people. So, don't be disappointed in the end, and do at least the best things about managing our money.
I know the psychological about money in many people is that it matters like a pour of teardrops that then becomes a waterfall, but for me, it's a rare thing. I have known a lot of people who become so crazy with the money-power because it settles the intention- the strength of money could buy many things nonetheless, you become poor. That's why in my country, there are many corruption cases from companies to the state enterprise Indonesia Central Bank or the biggest oil and gas company in my country is like nobody absent, and the amount sound enormous. I think it sounds pitiful yet happy to get a marathon corruption case, and perhaps with the triathlon, so annoying, right?
But, in the same condition, my brain and my soul are being wrecked into the reality of how badly we need money. As you also know in my second article in PeakD I talked about how my family has not pushed me to become the part of financial base, they can fulfill my necessity primarily, not until the secondary, but for me, the tension between the it real case of my family choices is make the strongest opinion how far they being crazy to not introduced me with the money-power itself or if it is not like then, it might there's a hidden reason.
You know that I have to tell the secret of my disgrace that my family never taught me to be financially independent or get so usually tends me by having a purse of money, that's why I got my first debit card in 2021 when I was at 24 years old. That's the power of my family not to include me as the team of "welcome to the money-jungles", and I thought that my money amount was not as much as the quarter-old people have in the half of billions. And when I know that I've got not whole control over my money, it frustrates me so badly. That's why the reasons why I have some experience being a victim of money-scamming fraud.
I have about twice times to be a victim of money scam fraud. I have no idea why the fraudster made a perfect alliance to trap, like making a job post in a Facebook group with a great amount of dollar compensation until the trading group in Telegram from randomly added. The fraudsters have amazing deceit or intrigue that seems so real, like the screenshot or any person who shows the real case of getting the money. Whenever I have difficulty getting a job, I am willing to have that great amount and about do they instructions like deposits some money is happened. Until I knew that they pushed me to deposit again and again, and then I realized that I was a participant in a monkey business, and I stopped it.
What I Have to Learn as a Victim of Money-Scam Fraud
It took a while for me to become better and heal from the trauma because I had lost a lot of money with the reality that when you lose an amount to deposits, then it never comes back again, or it will be changed if you make some money by working.
However, my brain is rooting an unusually mind for commenting all of the 'why' I was slacking the stupidity for decided to deposits for get all the money end-deal. From those of the miserable ones I had done for, I know that for money every people is too cruel for. I keep thinking about why there are cunning people who want a lot of money by employing and giving tasks to be done for about daily duration. I was done with their task, but in the end, they betrayed me and just wanted money from me.
Even more, the impact of that money-scam fraud tragedy for me is make open my eyes widely, it might be that every kind person among us is by having two faces right now. Nobody ever has 100 percent a good motive for other people. In case they are bluntly to do that because of the value around them which still stronger push for just having a money for enough fulfill the life expenses. It is related to those of me whoever want to avoid the money-power, maybe that they are same as me that very difficult to had some money while the necessities are push to be filled by.
But, perhaps they are using a technology to deceive all people for money-scam fraud, which is if you had some technology you are not too poor as ever people who doesn't had it. I think the system of money-scam fraud now is so crazy; it is not even related to the money itself but the might for the principle of surviving that world.
It means that what they running for is just to prohibit the mundane. I know our world is like never never-ending story as well, and the money-power has been established in all of the layers. I think that it regularly happened among many people from old until kids. Like when another friend has bought some kind of things that make your willingness keep riding, I think that the power for about had the same thing as them is close to the lid. However, if you become too pitiful to have some of them things, then you would be done all the way although it is out of the boundaries lines.
That's why I could immerse myself with the one thing a loud about be in those one of the folks that be official low-profile is all of that point to be survive not by looking some of fishy rules like doing a money-scam fraud because even you know, not only you whoever the most destitute. You are not alone if you can not fulfill the life requirement. I, myself is still do not have a financial freedom profile that I can't be proud to say I am the only one person who stands for my requirements.
Many people outside is rather have difficult phase it might not by they financial condition it is can be at any different factors like you can not survive for the mentality profile or had a worst value from your relation and so on. So, keep building up and change your mindset about money is something not so important, but the kinship is the most important. If you can bring yourself into a good impact, I think your fate would be changing too.
Being what you are now is more important than being "someone else".