Letting Go of My Ex was the smarted thing for me to do and im happy! :) Story Time!
I believe most of us have ex's any past, with sunny and rainy days. Every one of us has our own healing process and dealing with the situation. Some of us wanted to make things back together, some of us are still confused and want space and some of us just wanted to make things over and try with different.
Would like to share with you everyone that I am blissful and blessed for not being with my ex. and I thank God for giving me such a hardworking, responsible, loving husband Seeing how my ex situation now with his wife is giving me relief and just accept and be thankful for the situation I am in.
A relationship isn't perfect and will never be, sometimes we gotta learn how to face the reality no matter how difficult and dangerous it could be for you/us, and just accept it but I know this is just easy to say but very hard to be immersed in and just do it.
STORYTIME:
Once upon a time char! Just kidding :D, so our relationship started with our friend teasing us teenager stuff or way ( i think this is pretty much standard before, teasing each other then turns to reality, Old days way to get someone ), so my cousin told me that someone has a crush on me and I was of course being a baby lol 😂 you know (pabebe) I was still a teenager at that time and NBSB (No Boyfriend Since Birth) 😊 so you know the feeling of having a crown as mss universe for the first time?
As what they say it feels like butterflies are moving in your tummy with rosy cheeks of course 😂 (apparently it wasn't that obvious because of my morena skin 😂) so yeah, it started from that, then he started to come near me, trying to talk but I was being a hen hiding and trying to avoid him. To make the story short, eventually, I said yes not because of my will but because my cousin pushed me to say yes as I was the only one that didn't have a boyfriend in the group ( I know it's very childish 🤦🏽♀️)
Fast forward, so yes, I was in a relationship with him, but there was no kissing and no holding hands while walking during our meet up, and when we go out for our DATE, apparently I had to have my cousin with me or a friend because I just didn't like the feeling of being alone with him, I was just peculiar not a real adult yet I guess haha...so it looked like, my cousin or my friend was the one dating him. 😂
After 4 months of being in a relationship, he broke up with me, I felt mildly pain because I think my feelings toward him built up after awhile then he is not a bad looking guy too but I handled myself to be acted ok and just ignored it.
I understood his side too, can you imagine being in his situation no kissing and no holding hand in a relationship😂, of course you would die 😂😂 I was just not too dumb to just give things easily.
My Point of view now as an adult, that was quite hard for him because for myself, I am such a clingy person, I would be very upset if my husband doesn't kiss or hold my hand or just touch me 😂 it would be a world war 😜 but I could have saved the relationship but thank god he let me choose my path now.
Now, seeing his life situation having a child and family with just almost ok job and still living with parents made me realize holy cow! I got a jackpot life! haha 😂
Mental Note
Would like to share this with you if you are still single, if you are dating someone right now, try to dig in his background how he really is as person if he is willing to learn new things, willing to get a goal, if he has a goal and family relationship.
Sometimes their relationship with parents matter too, you might find someone that is good looking but damaged inside because of their family relationship and you could only realize how much damage it is when you try to dig in and worse already married with him :(
If you think that their relationship doesn't affect him, then you are sadly mistaken.
Yay ! Done! See you again ! Thanks for spending your time! :*