Some girls are just naturally destroyers of destiny. When they come to you, things just start to go down the drain without you even noticing. And when these happens to boys, most times they are blinded by love and do not even know the signs.
However, if you are observant, careful and overall prayerful, you should be able to know that this girl you're about to date or you're dating currently will lead you into penury. I have listed below the signs which you should look out for.
- She depends on you for most of her needs.
Hello! You're dating and not wedded yet. There ought to be a line. Notwithstanding when you're hitched, a mindful lady will dependably endeavor to do somethings without anyone else's input and include you in just those things that are your obligation or where she truly needs assistance. At the point when a young lady relies upon you for month to month membership, cash for course readings, cash for hair, cash for garments, cash for shoes, at that point you should realize that she may wreck you particularly in case you're a low salary worker. I'm not saying you can't purchase these things on the off chance that you have the cash however when she relies upon you for them, RUN.
- She doesn't care whether you spend on yourself on not.
Imagine your girlfriend seeing you on a worn out sandals and she's wearing an extremely costly shoe she's as yet attempting to compel you to purchase another shoe she requirements for a gathering at end of the week. Or you haven't subscribed for a month because of lack of money and she's aware of this but she's reminding you of her own subscription which is yet to finish without thinking of a way to share hers with you. That girl is trying to use your head, RUN.
- She offers to sleep with you everytime she needs money.
This young lady has considered you to be a "mugu". On the off chance that she influences a demand from you and you to whine about not having cash, she baits you to bed, trusting that you'll acknowledge to give her the cash amid or after the demonstration. If it's not too much trouble RUN.
- She is never concerned about how you make money
You continue giving a young lady money and continues returning for additional without needing to know how you get the cash, or without requesting to know how you deal with yourself in the wake of giving her the cash. She is a predetermination destroyer/gold digger, RUN.
- She never spends her money on you.
At the point when your young lady has never thought of getting you gift, regardless of how little it is or even fund one of your outings, you should begin to see signs that she's not going to help your future and you should RUN.
I'll stop now. You're free to add yours and ask your questions.