I have been into this online relationship outreach for some time now. It has not been an easy task but God's grace has been there.
One of the major problems l have discovered lately is misplaced priority in relationship. Don't let your heart be toiled with, depression has led many to make inevitable mistakes in relationship. The absence of not having a choice will lead you to any available relationship that won't add value to you.
But sometimes I ask myself,
WHY NOT WAIT FOR THE RIGHT ONE
And today l couldn't help but to wish for a world class wedding and home as Prince Harry and Meghan Markle ties the knot. A wedding that almost kept me glued to CNN for the live coverage.
Sometimes desperation can lead you to make wrong choices in marriage. That your mates are getting married is not a guarantee for you to marry out of societal expectations. When you marry out of time factor you will still jump out.
Marry because you know what you want and it can work for the both of you despite your imperfections, always make sure that your spouse is ready to tolerate you no matter what happens. Though sometimes things turn against us why do I say so?
Just last night A very good friend of mine visited unlike her she was unhappy and wasn't the ever cheerful lady l use to know.
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I asked her why the sudden change of attitude, she complained bitterly how she turns down serious minded men that is ready to tie the knot with her to be with someone that never made her a priority. I was forced to open up to her, the marital crises of a newly wedded couple l was treating when the man treat the lady as a maid, not minding the sacrifice the lady made to make sure the man is happy all to no avail, I have to direct her to join one of the best marriage counselors class here in Enugu.
my advice to you all this morning is,
Don't remain where you are not needed, is better to have a broken relationship than a broken home. Life is too short to be tied with bitterness, Marry! Marry!! Marry because you know what you want and it can work for the both of you despite your imperfections. Ask questions where the relationship is aheading to if your your Partner Starts Behaving like Lagos traffic, my dear is never a crime. Because The person you assume to be your special someone might just be passing time with you.
I'm that writing freak
@luckyspark
(Relationship Expert/ life coach)