I think different people surely will have different answer to this question, I mean we all have different "Symptoms/Clues" that we are indeed inlove.
- Some of us experience these "Magical Moments" when the person they loved is around them. What I mean magical moment is like those in movies where the world would suddenly slow down, where the moon looks very gigantic, where a second feels like very long. I didn't experienced these moments. YET. Well maybe I wasn't been able to experienced these moments yet, no one could know. Who know maybe tomorrow I will be experiencing these "Movie-like Scenes"
- Others feel that their heart was beating so fast everytime the person they love is around. They feel nervous that they can't stop shaking and sweating.
- Some says that their life was full of colors and they have positive aura all day
As I was saying we all have different symptoms when we are inlove, in my case I really don't realize that I love the person right away. It always take some time before it strike me that "Whoooaaa, I didn't realize it but I love hits me."
So here are some of those symptoms and clues that makes me realize that "I'm inlove with her"
- I will notice that she was the only person that I can see. This really was the first clue that I love a person, what do I mean the only person that I can see? Is the person around me or her became invisible? No. Is the person around us lost their presence? No. When I say the only person that I can see is that the certain person have my most attention. I will suddenly feel that everytime I turn around her face will the only face I can see. Everywhere I see her face will be seen by me, everywhere I turn my sight will lead me to her side. It was like my sight was been magnet to her, it was like when I look to my left or to my right she will end up there. When I look in front or my back her face surely will appear on my mind
- I feel comfortable with her. I was really an 80% introvert person. I do not normally start conversation even in my friends, they usually brings the topic in the gang and when I feel like I dropping some suggestions and stories I do. But if I am inlove with a lady, I probably would start a conversation with her.
- I feel to do every chores when she is around. I usually boast when the person I love was around, making all the possible chores I could make, finishing all the chores the fastest that I can. I suddenly gave initiative to every chores so that the person that I love notice me.
- I am excited to see her. This was missing her for a day of not seeing her, I feel like I always want to see her and became really excited when I know she is coming or when I was meeting her.
- Taking every chance to see her. This was really the continuation of being excited to see her, taking every chance to see her even in a short moment. A couple of minutes seeing her makes me really happy and inspired to all the things that I do.
- I smile everytime I see her name. Even seeing her name makes me smile, makes me think of her and makes me happy.
- I notice little things that reminds of her. I tend to attach everything to her, even candy wrappers, bottled waters and little things was being attached to her. Let's say that the person that I love loves to eat candy, every candy wrapper that I can see along the way would reminds me of her. Let's say she always drink a certain kind of bottled water, every bottled water would remind me of her (even different brand, I would think of it as the competitor of the bottled water she was drinking). Everything would be attached to her.
- I would tend to look for her pictures. Looking for her pictures would be my hobby.
- I wake up thinking about her. She will be the very first person that will come to my mind everytime I wake up from my sleep.
- I will sit alone in a chair and think of her. I definitely love her when I think of her everytime I was alone.