the secret of long lasting relationship
a man was much reserved by nature, was very hesitant to ask his boss for a raise in his salary.
One Friday morning he got up and told his wife “I will do it today darling” I shall ask my boss for a raise in my salary as the man came to his office he was extremely nervous and very apprehensive all throughout the day to speak up, let in the afternoon as he approached his boss, finally he gathered the courage to speak up and ask for a raise in his salary much to his delight the boss agreed. The man was on top of the world and he came back home, he saw a beautiful dinner table, fin crockery set on the table, a beautiful candle lit up his wife had prepared a festival meal to celebrate the occasion.
He quest someone from the office might have tipped her off and informed her about it anyway he got into the kitchen, hugged her gave her the good news and came and sat down to have his meal right there on the table was a card the man picked and read the content the card said congratulation Darling, I knew you would get salary raise these thing the dinner table,crockery ,the candle, the meal all these things are to tell you” how much I love you ” prep by prep the lady served her husband and as she went back into the kitchen finally to bring the dessert, from the pocket of her fell another a another card unknown to her he picked up the card and as he reads the content of the card was written don’t worry darling, even if you don’t get the salary raise, you deserve much more than that this dinner table, this crockery, these fine candle, these fantastic meal all these things are simply to tell you how much I love you.
Total acceptance
Total love
Total support
Her love for him was unconditional it didn’t depend on his success at work infact it was exactly the opposite. If he were to fail, if he were to be rejected, he would have needed the total acceptance and all the more and she would be there by his side to support him suffering the blows and healing his wounds believing in him, loving him even if were to be rejected by the whole world.
If we have one person in our lives who can totally accept us, totally believe in us and totally support us we can certainly achieve what we want and reach where we want to go therefore surround yourself with people who believe in you and accept you totally regardless of your success or failure and also be that person for someone regardless of their success or their failure
Thank you for believing in me