Change for the sake of yourself but not for your partner answered one of my big questions.
Should we change for our partner for something good?
I am a very forgetful person. All these while I'm the only one suffering from the consequences, no one else. It's been bothering me but I can live with it.
But when I started relationship with Williams, he's suffering from it as well. Like my forgetfulness is challenging his values. So do I change for him so that I can be better? Or I'm actually changing for myself?
I was really contemplating whether am I forsaking myself?
And you have brought clarity to me. I am changing not because of him. Instead, he is the catalyst. I need to change for the sake of growth. Forgetfulness is not helpful.
Thank you for making it so clear to me, @maverickfoo :D
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