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This is a very sensitive issue and people barely talk about it. We have seen these things happening and problem usually arises from this, most people tends to stay away owing to the fact that their friend once had something to do with that person. It is a two way thing and both parties has been found guilty, even though we don't talk about this because we are just trying to avoid trouble, so many has had feeling either for their friend's boy friend/ girl friend and some are even waiting patiently for them to breakup.
On a road show, an interview was made and they spoke to random people, I watched when a lady was interviewed and asked if she could date her friend's ex and with utmost shock, she said yes smiling. Then another was asked if she could marry her friend ex and she said she have no problem with that and even if the guy happens to be her sister's ex, she would still go ahead and her reason being that they are no longer together and broke up for reasons that anyone would understand.
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I have also heard a story of a lady dating a guy and the guy treats her like trash. She cooks, washes and does every house chores for her boyfriend whenever she visits but the guy never appreciated her. The guy's friend was always advicing and begging his friend to show appreciation that ladies like that are hard to find but all fell on deaf ears. The friend travelled out of the country and whenever he was about settling down, he came back to Nigeria to find a way and noticed his friend has broken up with the girl long ago and he went ahead to look for the lady and got married to her. And as the story ends, they both travelled out together as a couple.
In this kind of situation, would anyone blame the friend for doing this?
What is your take on this topic in general, Can you marry or date your friend ex girlfriend/boyfriend?