Work on yourself.
If you can work as one to overcome problems in marriage your marriage will be the best, do it. But if your husband won’t get involve, work on your marriage on your own. Start with yourself as the wife and maybe your husband will come around later. Also, are you being realistic about what you’re expecting from your husband and your marriage? Are you treating him the way you want to be treated? Is a question every woman needs to ask herself? Work on what you can first, and then you’ll be better prepared to bring him into the loop. Learn to talk over your issues amicably without reporting to anyone not even parents.
We invest a lot in the children if we’re not careful, our marriage/relationship with our spouse gets neglected. Men Guard against that day by investing more in your wife now. Rather than mourn the children after they leave to their own home, try to celebrate your wife, you now have to invest more time and interest in your marriage. Again, it’s all about being intentional.
Money problem: The stress associated with money problems in the family can be overwhelming. But in the end, it’s only money that mostly cause issues in some homes. And money has no power over your commitment to your marriage. Commit to a plan, Live simply, Never keep financial secrets from your wife or husband. The first step to solving money problems is to look for the cause of the problem. using all the money tricks in this world won’t work unless you know what’s causing your marriage problems!