Good morning, I want to share an experience that can serve whoever is reading at this moment.
Last night my wife and I were invited to a wedding ceremony by a couple of the congregation, sitting at the table with a group of young people and we began to perform a kind of game where the slogan was "Ask questions of any kind" .
Amidst laughter and amusement one of them asks me the question:
"How do you think the profile or the choice should be for a boyfriend"?
... Interesting .... (The rest of the members, and HIS PARENTS paid attention ..).
This led to my wife and me; to remember the advice received in our courtship stage.
... I replied ...
I will share the advice you have given us and since then we have shared with people.
We have some recommendations.
That your choice of a couple is a child / Daughter of God.
This refers to the unequal yoke, we understand that there is grace for everything and in the case of couples who know Jesus and are in concubinage, the word teaches us not to separate, is more; we have an opportunity to fix everything that is not in its place. 1 Corinthians 7: 12-17
To be more practical: An unequal yoke is like living as a couple with a dead person.
That is of the same creed, doctrine, teaching.
We have seen and I had had that experience of being teaching and being with a woman who had a perception of spiritual things, it has been a hard load to bear.
That loves God above all. It is difficult for a person who loves God sincerely NOT to manifest that love to his fellowmen.
Being old enough (Not being a boy or girl), not having a commitment to another person.
In the case of man:
"Command these things also, that they may be blameless: for if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever."
1 Timothy 5: 7-8.
Comply with civil regulations.
They love each other, willing to give each other.
We have a practical example throughout the development of the letters of the Apostle Paul, the example of Christ's love for the church.
Maybe you do not agree on the order or believe that some recommendations are missing.
We are free to comment and add recommendations.
Particularly I BELIEVE that taking these recommendations into account can help us to have a much more accurate approach to our choice.
This has been my answer about the uneasiness of the Young ...
My wish is that you are enriched and full of Blessings, that these councils will accompany you the rest of your life!
Thank you very much for reading, COMMENT, voting and sharing.