So, the ten commandments have merit or do the commandments that you like have merit. I need to know. You said the commandments "are not God's ideal" way. I think that is what you were saying.
As for emotional. I find it interesting that those that are the most emotional tell others to not get emotional.
Just explain what laws you like out of the Bible. Do you think all ten should be followed or just the ones you like.
RE: Do this and God will reveal himself to You.