There is nothing more gratifying than sex. Be honest. Sometimes our fantasies are full of it! And oftentimes we find ourselves wanting sex that is raw, non-committed, adventurous, a lascivious kind of love that is all about satisfying our promiscuous sexual desires; and casual sex gives us the thrill and excitement that we crave so much, letting us indulge in all our epicurean sexcapades which are seldom experienced by those in a romantic relationship.
You may be a sexy casanova or a seductive scarlet woman, whoever you are or whatever you want to become, if you are into sex with no strings attached, here is what you should know about the bright side and the dark side of hooking up for a one-night stand!
The Benefits:
1) Explore Sex, Experience Something New.
Casual Sex gives you the freedom to explore your sexuality and at the same time you get to experience the greatest sex ever because every single time it's different and exciting; each sexual encounter feels like the first time and it keeps you guessing, unlike traditional relationships where everything feels like 'been there, done that.'
Max DuBowy is a writer who tells Huffington Post that, "...Sex is sort of like ice cream, in that it comes in all kinds of flavors; Some evenings vanilla ice cream tastes good, but other nights, you’re really craving rocky road,” about having one-night stands which perfectly describes how wonderful casual sex can be.
2) No Strings Attached, literally!
DuBowey goes on to say that, "We live in a ‘swipe’ culture where it’s easy to hook up quick and move onto the next encounter." No promises, no intimate chit-chat in the mornings, no angry calls or text messages later in the day for being unresponsive, no nothing- just have sex, have fun, and move on!
And to top it all up, studies show that casual sex made women feel physically satisfied 93 percent of the time contrary to the popular belief that women dislike having casual sex and viewed it negatively↗.
3) A Great Distraction after a Break-up.
Casual sex can be a great way to get over a breakup if you've been through one recently. If you are feeling depressed or just want to get over your ex, and casual sex has been on your mind, then do not let yourself think twice, just do it already! Going through a breakup can be painful, and it can be emotionally draining to just have a pillow to hug and kiss every night. So, give yourself a break and have some fun. There is nothing like casual sex when it comes to giving yourself a treat after what you've just been through. Skip the lonely night and indulge in something better than the glass of vodka in your hand.
The Downfalls:
1) Developing Feelings.
Sex can sometimes lead to feelings of love, especially if you are a woman, and that can be a sign that the sex is becoming less casual and more intimate for you, which can be disappointing if your hook-up buddy doesn’t feel the same way about you. Also, women are more likely to feel ashamed or guilty after having casual sex. So, it’s always a good idea to think twice before taking the ride!
2) The Undeniable Risks.
Though casual sex can satisfy your emotional needs, it can quickly get ugly (especially if you are a woman) if you forget the most important rule of them all- wearing a condom. Casual sex night can become your worst nightmare if you find yourself in an awkward position of carrying a baby bump! And if you think you can get away with not using any protection if you are a man, think again. With sexually transmitted diseases on the rise, you could be left with irreversible damages if you are not being careful. So, be a little smart and invest in a condom, then go ride horses or play with pussycats, whatever is your thing.
3) Your Reputation.
If you are worried about your reputation, then it is a good idea to think (twice or even thrice) before you make the giant leap into the world of casual sex. It's true that there is bias against women who are into casual sex. If you care about your social status but still want to have casual sex all the while remaining incognito, then you might want to consider being a pro at covering your tracks effectively. Many of us care about our reputations that we've built over the years and it would be a shame to get it all blown up because of a nightstand with someone.
Everybody loves sex, there is no denying that, but casual sex is something that is yet to get the support from everyone on a global scale. Though the outlook is changing as people come to realize its benefits over traditional relationships, casual sex still raises eyebrows with many believing that dating apps like Tinder, Grindr, Disckreet, Down, Pure, Blendr, Hinge, and married couple hook-up sites like Ashley Madison are leading to low self-esteem and depression↗ (though there isn’t any proper study to prove this yet) but, in reality, apps like these are making casual sex available to anyone, anywhere, and anytime!
The Casual Sex Project is a website dedicated to sharing casual sex stories from around the world. If you are into casual sex, you might want to check it out to share your own story or just read real people share real experiences. You never know, casual sex just might be what you need today or, but if you are more about having meaningful relationships and sex means something more than just one-night stands for you, then you might want to give casual sex a miss.
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