Quite often, receiving sexual pleasure only through penetration is a difficult task for women. Due to this, a great percentage of women don’t reach orgasm because of the lack of clitoral stimulation. This is no secret, but it’s worth looking over the data.
A recent survey from the Kinsey Institute at the University of Indiana revealed that women (especially heteresexual) have less orgasms than men. As a matter of fact, 61.6% of surveyed women mentioned having orgasms while being intimate with their partners, compared to 85.5% of the men. Among these women, a large majority only climaxed through stimulation of the clitoris.
So that you might have a starting point, there are certain positions that make it easier to climax. These are some of them:
- The Missionary
Although the passing of time has brought with it toys, lubricants, and a host of positions, the missionary position is ever present, the most common in sex.
This is one of the classics and preferred by an infinity of women. The closeness with one’s partner gives a feeling of great intimacy that adds to the romanticism of the moment as both are able to look into each other’s eyes, and the constant touching of the male pubis against the clitoris is almost a sure guarantee of an orgasm
If your partner is able to get into a good angle, the vaginal walls and the G spot can be well stimulated. You must find the right posture to achieve the best contact possible between his pubis and your clitoris. Some women use a pillow under their buttocks to increase their pleasure. Try it. It’s possible that you will be able to notice the difference that a better posture makes since it’s easy and natural.
- The Butterfly
The Butterfly is the sexual position that will make you fly.
The woman must lie on a secure, flat surface of a medium height such as a table or breakfast bar. The man must be on his feet in front of the woman while she opens her legs like butterfly wings and places them over his shoulders. The woman must then rest her hands on her sides while the man holds her lower back to support her. That’s when he must penetrate her and find his rhythm while standing. He can squeeze her buttocks to intensify the pleasure and both will see stars!
- The “X”
This is another position that allows women to attain pleasure more easily. With your man lying on his side, lie down face up and place a leg over his hips. This position is excellent because your clitoris will be within the reach of his hand or you yourself can stimulate and guide him.
- The Coital Alignment
This is an ideal position for more committed couples. Start off in the missionary pose, but once your partner has penetrated you, ask him to move further up so that your head is at the level of his chest and his pubis presses with more force against your clitoris. Your legs need to go around his thighs (not his hips).
This position is not to penetrate with force, but instead, the two must rock side to side to reach pleasure.
- The “Ankles Up” position
This position allows a better penetration. While you are face up, place one of your ankles over his shoulders so you expose a larger area of your vulva. This will create penetration that is deeper and more pleasurable.
- The position of fusion
This position gives you control over the action. With you partner face up, mount him; you will achieve a deep penetration and the act of being in charge of the movement adds extra spice. Foreplay must be intense leading up to this because the position doesn’t allow much use of the hands or contact of the mouths for further stimulation.
- The Spoon
This is one of the best positions and a guaranteed passport to pleasure. Lie down on your side while your man lies facing your back. Then stretch one leg backwards and put it around his waist. He will be able to caress your clitoris and your breast without any problems and this will definitely be very pleasurable for you. This is an ideal position for well endowed men and flexible women since it fulfills many fantasies. In the first place, she will be with her back against her partner while he has access to her face and neck. It’s pretty sexy, so don’t go without trying it.
These are some of the ways that you can increase your pleasure. It’s important to try them and discover what you enjoy the most. Always experiment; sex isn’t only pleasurable in bed. It will be in your best interest to change places or positions to have the best sex of your life.