In our Life, many things are not in our control. One of them is Emotions. With or without reasons, our emotions swing. Sometimes we feel happy with or with out reasons. Emotions are like Whisky....Khushi mein bhi aur gum mein bhi....
Sometimes We try hard to show sadness on our face at someone's funeral but get fail in doing so. At other times, we want to show happiness on someone's anniversary but find it difficult in expressing the same. What emotions do- It influence our behavior. But one thing is sure with emotions- it always motivates. Motivation could be in positive way or in Negative way.
There are Monks who have good control on their emotions and other than monks, I think, politician too have a good control over this. In this uncontrollable and unpredictable life, there is one way to command over emotions is doing Pride over what you have or what you don't have. One can have pride on his silky hair and another can be pride on his baldness. By doing pride on success or failure is the only way to have a similar emotion. If you get fail, pride on yourself that you are coping well from this bad situation. On success, pride to banta hai(Proudness comes automatically).😊
Our achievments we celebrate, because that come with our hard work. But people do also celebrate their birthdays, anniversary etc. These are the milestones which everyone crosses naturally. But we do pride on this also. Hey its my 25th marriage anniversary...We are still together....its a party time 🍟🍗. So there are n number of reasons to feel proud. If i have perfect vision, I pride on my Heroic look. If i have impaired vision, i pride on my studious look.
There is always a good side of every situation, the only thing is how we look. Even bad time gives you learning. So it is always a matter of pride. Feel Proud in every condition as long as you are alive.