Breakups are hard. Getting over them is worse. Okay!! hold on Hmmmm, falling in love with someone who doesn't love you back is worse than a breakup. But I am here to talk about breakups . And really having a relationship without gaining anything apart from you suffering isn't good for health. In that kind of case I'd advice a breakup.
As long as that person you love makes you feel pain, then that is an unhealthy relationship. Cut it off!! Most people don't know when a relationship isn't a healthy one. Here are some facts to consider. If you really want to know:
- You get hurt emotionally most of the time and in some cases physically.
- Your partner isn't supportive of whatever you do.
That's really all there is to knowing if you're in a healthy relationship or not. I know its hard to leave that person you think you love but when there's life there is hope.
I know it will be hard moving on from a breakup most especially when your heart was broken by your loved one. But you can. Because in reality he or she doesn't really love you and consider that the person you're meant to be with is still out there suffering just as you are. You will eventually find that love you're seeking .
I know there will be times when you will remember the person who broke your heart or the person whose heart you broke because he or she didn't treat you right. But by putting yourself in a position that gets your mind off that person would really help. How can you do this??
By being the best you can can be. Get into exercises most especially sports . You will eventually observe that the relationship you left was pulling you down.
Having Fun gets your mind over anything and we all need fun in our lives. Think about your future there's no bad relationship worth dying for. Because eventually that person will move on.
Most people venture into having a child when they feel they loosing love. This is a bad idea because apart from hurting yourself , you bring a child into the pain. This leads to the child suffering emotionally and physically in some cases where the Father tends to hit the child. This leads to the child going wild just to find some sort of peace in the storm of his or her life.
All I can say is before you venture into a life of hurt think about the consequences.