Deception is to think that a man who loves you won't want
to touch you. You hear Christian ladies say "if he loves you,
he won't even think of having sex with you as a Christian."
The truth is, irrespective of a man's status or religious
inclinations, once he develops interest in you, the subject of
wanting you is already in the wings, even though it may lie
dormant."
A man who loves you will definitely want to have sex with
you! In fact, the deeper and more intense the love is, the
more he wants to consummate his love for you quickly. It is
both a natural and a supernatural. order, once the mind is
there, the body naturally follows.
The difference however between the carnal and spiritual man
is that, while they both feel and want the same thing, the
spiritual man has control over his mind and body and as
such won't want to defy or defile you. The natural man has
no such control measures and is liable to follow the
direction of his erection.
So if you have been in that relationship for a while and you
are both keeping yourselves, don't assume that he is so
spiritual that he can't touch you and won't touch you.
The bottom line is this: don't be gullible to the extent that
you believe nothing would happen, even if he can speak in
tongues from here to the pacific. And watch out for signs- of
absolute self-control and respect for you in the area of sex.
I am not talking about you affirming this by saying he has
never had an erection near you, in this case you even have to
be sure he is not suffering from erectile dysfunction. In fact,
ask him to go and do a test if your church doesn't normally
request for it. Is it as serious as that? Yeah, it is very
serious. Don't base your findings on the absence of erection,
let it be firmly assured by the conditioning of his heart.
Is he a Christian brother? Watch out for the fear of God in
his life, that's what will keep and save you both.
Look out for the moment he withdraws his hands and keeps them in his
pockets, look out for the periods his breathing becomes
heavy and he turns away momentarily from you, look out for
the times you are supposed to meet and he cancels your
meeting, look out for the fear of God and the restraining
ability of the Holy Spirit. In those moments, help him as you
can- in demeanor and comportment, dressing and carriage,
words and conversations.
But most importantly, help him on your knees. Help him
approach heaven from your own end.
Are you thinking that is much work? actually, the benefit is
more of yours than his.
Keep It Pure
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Flourish In Purity
Jesus is the answer to the problems of the world today.
Tell a friend to tell a friend.
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