A really good piece of advice for expectant parents.. DONT LISTEN TO EVERYONE
During pregnancy, expectant mothers receive unsolicited advice and prognoses on birth and after that from people they hardly know. Strange, however, is that it is usually about horror stories - cheerful women and the prospect of a problem-free birth seem to provoke the environment.
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Pregnancy is an amazing thing. Besides all the infinitely confusing, new impressions and feelings that she has for the parent, pregnancy is also a social phenomenon that does the strangest things to other people. If you have been pregnant or have been pregnant, you probably know what I am talking about. If you are about to get pregnant, or if you are pregnant, arm yourself!
Pregnant women should arm themselves against the oracles of fellow human beings
Familiar or completely strangers will try to touch your abdomen and try without any expertise, and probably not even under the influence of an oracle as necessary in antiquity. You will get to hear all kinds of things. More precisely, it will be blown over your ears. About the effects of round and pointed bellies on the sex of the child you will inform them or that darkening hair, skin rash or similar unwelcome physical changes can mean only one thing: You get a girl, of course, because that subtract the beauty of her mother and claim for yourself. If, on the other hand, you are a radiant, unencumbered pregnant woman, then "definitely" will be a boy. Where: Caution! Cheerful pregnant women provoke their environment for some reason, often to "This is still very terrible!" Comments. So, if you've weathered the first trimester well, you have not been sick all the time, and you're basically looking forward to your offspring, you'll be told that the rest of your pregnancy is going to get really bad. "Wait a minute, that's coming!" Because something has obviously come yet, so that the intimate, subjective experience of pregnancy, childbirth and parenting can be communitized. And this happens mainly through persistent evidence of imminent suffering, because society promises so obvious influence by evoked need for help. Satisfied pregnant women do not inquire at every opportunity for tips and encouragement from others. Satisfied pregnant women rarely or not at all have this mild sense of panic, which makes expectant parents become unwilling consumers.
An easy pregnancy, a trouble-free child? Can not be!
So be warned! There is something else coming. If the first trimester was okay, then the last one is definitely hell. With shame mask, water retention and non-sleeping more can be for women. With no sex and permanent bad conscience for men. If that too should not put you sobbing in the arms of all the well-wishers who would like to have a say, old war stories are unpacked. They do not believe anything that can hurt, bleed and tear during childbirth. Umbilical cords wound six times around the neck of little babies - everything had already been done. It is the frequency of horror stories about the same as with the celebrity density in returns to earlier lives. You know, most of them were special then.
In addition, births in narrative are always like blockbuster movies: with 20 hours of DVD extra in the Director's Cut. If, however, the birth should also be relatively mild, the nameless terror will be extended to education: child will only scream! Wait a while for the defiance phase! School is terrible today! In puberty, they are unbearable!
You will never be able to prepare enough - no one can do it. That's why everyone always talks about it and talks to you. All these reminders are not really there to help you in any way, but to make sure that despite all the stress and self-doubt, you're doing pretty well with the offspring. So it's best to only listen to people you've always wanted to know. And tell in return later not poor, unsuspecting couple horror fairy tales. Otherwise it will all end in a bad way for you.