Did you know? What fathers should know about your daughters
The woman, the unknown being - for men is and remains most of the life. If you are the father of a small daughter, the following article may help you to better understand your child - and possibly your wife - in the future. This benefits not only you but your child as well!
Fathers have a huge influence on their children and usually have little idea of it. In particular, daughters shape their later self-image as well as their male image in adult life significantly by the behavior of the father towards them in childhood. A big responsibility - which makes us fathers a little easier if we know how our eye star is ticking. The following points should always be kept in mind when spending time with your daughter:
- Your love for your daughter determines how much your daughter loves herself.
- Just as you treat your wife, your daughter expects to be treated by men.
- Your views on the female body shape the self-perception of your daughter.
- Give your daughter confidence in her physical and mental strength. Then she can trust other men later.
- Show your daughter that there are moments when she is weak. Also show her how to overcome this weakness - whether on her own or with the help of others.
- Speak softly and gently with your daughter, then she will understand you better.
- If you are angry with her daughter, explain her why. She feels it anyway.
- If you treat others with respect and kindness, your child will learn to trust the world and people.
- Encourage her daughter to have her own opinion and teach her to represent it with arguments - not just tears, shouts and door slaps.
- Be respectful to your daughter, so that you also demand this respect from other men.
- Strengthen her daughter's intellect so she learns that her mind is more valuable than outward appearances.
- Show your daughter that it's okay to be alone. Then she will not become so dependent on others' opinions.
- Do not dodge in front of your daughter when she slowly becomes a woman. Otherwise she thinks something is wrong with her.
- Always give your daughter the opportunity to come to you to cuddle or talk - even if she has behaved badly before. This "safe haven" will give her strength for her whole life.
- Let your daughter help with repairs or lawn mowing. So she learns that she can do everything that boys can do.
- Do not lie to your daughter because she trusts you and believes everything you tell her.
Give your daughter an optimistic attitude to life and show her the beautiful sides of the world. This experience will shape their expectations of life.
The love that daughters feel for their fathers is something unique. As a father you should not forget this as well as the fact that even your little princess will grow up once. They are the measure of how capable and capable of bonding your child will be once and to which man it "gets". How you treat your daughter now will have an impact on her whole life - you must never underestimate that. Incidentally, this is regardless of whether you are married to your child's mother or not, whether you live together or separately. Father remains father - even if he is rarely present. By the way, this fact will also play a major role in the later life of your daughter and in her relationships with men.
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