This is undoubtedly the biggest and toughest question most people face in a fresh relationship. The right answer can make a perfect relationship and the vice versa. This is why. Most girls think guys are interested in them just for the sex and so feel they'll lose their bfs after giving them sex. Guys on the other hand think their girls might be denying them sex but rather allowing other guys to have sex with them, so it's basically an issue of trust for most guys.
My take on this issue
Well, I ain't no relationship expert, but I think I've been through a lot to be able to address this issue of sex.
My answer would be "Yes and No".
It depends solely on how trust flows through in your relationship. If trust is free flowing then you don't need sex to prove trust so this issue of sex will then fall on your individual beliefs including religion and morality, if you're both good with it then fine, if not you make a decision to live without it.
Secondly if you find out that you both are having trust issues as a result of a no sex relationship you either give sex a chance if you're really sure of your intentions of marriage or you part ways quickly to save time and reduce the hurt that comes with breaking up after a long time in a relationship.
I know you're more confused than ever. šš
In short, get answers for these questions and you're good to go.
- How does trust flow in your relationship?
- What are your religious and moral beliefs on the sex topic?
Thanks for the read! šš